Many boys can’t help but rush to confess their feelings when they meet a girl they like. But in fact, this is a kind of behavior seeking death. As for why, let me explain in detail below.

1. First acquaintance stage

First of all, you have to know that you don’t know each other very well. If you want to pursue a girl, she may just be the right one for you. To put it bluntly, you want the person to look good and have a good temperament.

Many times, the person you like is not the real person, but just the person you imagined. You are not even sure whether you will like her after getting to know her, and how long you will like her? You are not sure yourself, so you confess your love rashly. How can other girls dare to believe you?

2. Understand. Stage

Do you feel that you have known each other for a while and understand each other quite well, so is it time to confess your feelings?

Although you have moved from strangers to friends. District, but don’t you have to go through a process if you want to attract her?

I know that when you like someone, you especially like to add drama to yourself. When she looks at you, you feel that she has noticed. You; she smiled at you, you have thought of the name of the child, can you guarantee that she really likes you? Just imagine, if a friend you have no feelings for suddenly confesses to you, what are you? How do you feel?

Some girls will feel disgusted with a boy after he confesses his feelings. If you let her know your feelings, then you are completely playing your cards right.

It’s like, you are going to watch a movie, but you read the movie commentary first and know all the story lines, will you still be interested? Isn’t love just unpredictable and erratic? Is it uncertain or unpredictable? You are happy to patronize yourself, but where are the girls?

In addition, if you confess your love too quickly, it will more or less leave a "frivolous" impression on girls. You know, girls will be defensive about people they don't know well. This is common sense. If you confess your love to her so quickly, she may think that you are just playing around and don't want to be together for a long time.

So not only do you have to take your time, you also have to let her experience her uniqueness in the process of getting along with her, and let her know that you treat her differently from others.

I am afraid that if I express too much and give too much, girls will not be with me, but will treat me like a licking dog. In fact, There is no need to worry, you can feel free to like her and enjoy every day chasing her. After you confess your love, you will find that your worries are right!!!

You know, after you Confessing a girl before you know whether she likes you or not can easily cause you to lose the initiative. Girls know what you are thinkingAfter that, it all depends on her character whether she accepts or rejects, whether she wants to hang on to you or keep her distance from you.

As the old saying goes: Confession should be your clarion call to victory, not a charge to advance. In fact, I know that many people just want to test whether a girl likes them through confession, but there are many ways to test, and we don’t need to use the most risky method. Besides, if a girl really likes you, in fact, if you confess It really doesn't matter if you don't express your feelings.