Of course it is very embarrassing to fail to confess to a girl and be rejected. This is why we do not recommend confessing hastily, because it will be difficult for you to develop in the future, and if you do not confess, you will leave yourself with something. retreat. But now that the mistake has been made, you still have to find a way to solve the problem. Let’s analyze how to get along with a girl after you fail to express your love to a girl and get rejected?
1. Confirm the reasons for the failure of confession
Many boys leave in a hurry because of embarrassment when a girl rejects their confession, but they never thought about why the girl rejected your confession. You are so confused. If you leave, you won't be able to learn from it, and it will also dampen your enthusiasm for pursuing girls in the future. so. It’s important to understand why confessions fail. Because many times a girl rejects you not only because you have no money or you are not handsome enough, but also because of the girl's own problems, such as she doesn't want to fall in love yet, or she feels you confessed your love too quickly and she can't accept it... And many boys will only attribute the problem to themselves.
Therefore, confirming the reasons for failure of confession will also be very helpful for you to pursue girls in the future.
2. Gentleman’s Exit
If you fail to confess your love to a girl, after understanding the reason for rejection by the girl, , don't run away. At this time, you should behave more gentlemanly, politely say thank you, sorry, and then leave. It seems that you are very graceful and will not lose your dignity because of being rejected. And you should also remember later: Don’t speak ill of girls just because your confession is rejected. Girls have the right not to like you. Even if you are treated as a tool, you are still willing to do it yourself. How can you blame others?
3. Keep a distance
Since girls have rejected your confession, boys should not pester each other with shameless signs. No matter how much you like her and how much you don't want to give up on her, you should not get close to her for the time being. If you forcefully ignore it, the other person will be even more embarrassed. Instead, stay away from the other person. At this time, keep your distance from the other person for the time being. If possible, I will chat with the girl on WeChat again after a month and get back to being friends. But you can only talk to her as a normal friend, and don't say disgusting words to pick up girls, otherwise the girl may block you, and you won't even be friends by then.
4. Self-Growth
Don’t be depressed after failing to express your love to a girl and being rejected. Cheer up, don't feel like you are worthless, ask your friends and your own friends (serious friends, not talkative friends) what are your strengths, so that you can become the direction of your own growth. Colleagues should show your excellence to girls in a timely manner to see if she will change her attitude towards you.
5. A chance encounter
After confirming that you have grown up, it may be two months, three months, or even half a year or a year. When you occasionally chat with a girl and feel that you are in a good mood, you can inquire about it and attend an occasion where the other person is present. As long as she is interested in you, she will take the initiative to talk to you, which means you are off to a good start. Of course, you can also chat with each other intentionally or unintentionally. Remember not to be too impatient, as long as you can talk.
After failing to express your love to a girl and being rejected, it does not mean that you have no chance. Try the above methods to see if it has any effect. Of course, sometimes no matter what you do, a girl still doesn't like you, and there's nothing you can do about it. This is something you have to learn in relationships too. Look at the lovers and friends around you. If you can't catch up, find another one. Although it may seem tedious, it is the smartest thing to do.
