Confession is always a song of victory. It is an expression of your confidence to girls. But there are many boys who like to regard confession as a clarion call to charge, and they start confessing halfway through the pursuit, resulting in failure of confession.
Many people will choose to give up at this time, but in fact, failure to confess can only prove that she has no feelings for you temporarily, but it cannot prove that she will not have feelings for you in the future. So don’t give up. If you give up, you’ll have nothing. Now that I’ve said it all, there’s nothing to be afraid of. Even if you break the pot, you still have a chance. And even if you fail, there are ways to make up for it, so how should you continue to chase after your confession fails?
1. Resolve embarrassment
After the confession fails, both parties will definitely be put into an embarrassing situation. If this embarrassment cannot be resolved, then there is basically no hope of continuing to pursue the relationship. Therefore, the first thing we have to do is to use humor to resolve the embarrassment and treat it as a confession. Later, when the atmosphere becomes awkward, you can laugh and say it doesn't matter. Although we can't be a couple, we can still be friends. Both parties will think you are a gentleman, and it will also resolve the awkward atmosphere.
2. Find the right standards for girls
Men chasing girls is the process of girls choosing you. She will choose your appearance, your material conditions, whether your conversation is interesting, etc.
If you are exactly what she wants, then you are her Mr. Right. If not, it will be difficult for you to get close to her.
If you fail to express your love, then you must not meet her standards in some way.
Think about what you have, what she likes, what she needs, and see what you still lack to make her reject you.
If you fail to find out your mistake after your confession fails, even if you pursue another girl again, you may make the same mistake next time.
Therefore, it is really important for you to understand this issue.
When it comes to chasing girls, it’s better to talk about how to make yourself better and make girls like you. Because love is a process of your love and my willingness, and this love and my willingness are exchanged for each other based on each other's value. If a woman has the looks you like, and you have the handsomeness or wealth she likes, then you can be together.
3. Establish secondary attraction
Use practical actions to prove that you are a reliable and excellent boy and establish secondary attraction.
The practical action here is not about how much you have to pay to pursue this girl, but about learning to invest in yourself. When you can be good enough to defeat the current girl,When there are all potential competitors, girls naturally have no reason to reject you.
Whether it is the improvement of attraction from the external appearance, or the internal upgrade of personal value, these shining points will become your unique attraction, and you can become a unique person in her eyes. If you are a person, then her attention and affection for you will naturally increase day by day.
Invest in yourself and make yourself a better person than at the same level. This is easy to do in the early stages of college.
Don’t regard “pursuing girls” as your entire life. When you can create attraction and make girls feel 8 points towards you equally If you have the above favorable impression, then your relationship will naturally become a matter of course.
"To pursue someone, you have to give. But the substantial contribution is just an auxiliary. What really attracts you is that you can make the decision to invest in yourself and make yourself a better person." .
Love yourself, learn self-discipline and invest in yourself, and someone will love you.
