Many boys are eager to confess their feelings when they meet a girl they like and want to quickly establish a relationship, but the result of doing so is often rejection. After all, confession is not a clarion call to attack but a song of victory. Therefore, it is not recommended that you confess your feelings when chasing girls. But some boys may still want to confess their feelings, so how long does it usually take for a girl to confess her love successfully?
1. Within a month , girls habitually refuse.
The reason is actually very simple. Within a month, even if a girl is a little interested in you and likes you, in fact, this kind of like is not a real like.
At this time, I am interested and somewhat like it. In fact, it can be replaced by a more precise word, which is called good impression;
Why good impression rather than like? There are two reasons:
Firstly, for a girl, even if she really likes a boy, she still needs to consider various aspects, such as whether he is motivated, mature and independent, etc.
The second reason is that for girls, the sign of truly liking a boy is acceptance and agreement. But in normal interactions between men and women, we can find that if a boy eagerly confesses his love to a girl within a month, generally speaking, the girl will refuse reservedly at this time, or find reasons why she still wants to consider it. It also shows that it's not really like, but just good feelings.
For example:
When girls see a motivated boy in the early stages, they will naturally be attracted to him. This boy generates more favorable impressions. But this is just a good impression, not a like.
Because for her, this boy still needs to be observed and she needs to make sure that this boy is indeed a truly motivated person before she can safely like this boy, or trust this boy. After all, the ambition of many boys nowadays is just a disguise.
Therefore, for girls, the best way is to use time to see whether the boy's performance is consistent with the qualities he has shown. Only when a girl is sure of what she wants can she turn her initial good feelings into a sense of security and true love.
Otherwise, it would be too risky for her to invest in a short period of time and accept being with this boy.
Girls observe that a boy usually lasts for one month, which is why girls who have been with him for more than one month will really like boys.
This is also the reason why many boys feel that girls have a crush on them at the beginning, and then they rush to confess but are often rejected by girls.
2. Why are people who are more than three months old rejected?
ThreeThe situation over a month is completely opposite to the initial understanding.
The girl at this time must have been observing the boy for a long time. And in three months, the novelty at the beginning has worn off.
In short, after more than three months, a girl will already know you very well, and you will have no new tricks at this time; at the same time, these three months of getting along will expose each other’s growing differences. The more discomfort.
Therefore, after chasing her for more than three months, you no longer have the qualities to attract her, so your confession will naturally not be successful. Therefore, if you want to express your love to a girl, it is best to choose a time when it is more than a month but less than three months.
