Chasing a girl is a step-by-step process. Confessing too early will only make your pursuit fail, and confession is not actually a necessary step when chasing a girl. So how can you confirm a relationship without confessing?
Before answering this question, I would like to share with you a true story about my female friend A.
When A graduated as an intern, she worked as an intern in a large Internet company. At that time, there were about 20 people who came to intern with her, including men and women.
Because they all graduated in the same year and were destined to work in the same company, they often made appointments to have dinner and sing together on weekends.
There is a boy among them, who is tall and thin. He is there every time we go out to play. At first, A had no impression of him, but later, A discovered that he seemed to treat A differently from others.
For example, when we eat hot pot together, he can always remember the dishes that A must order; every time he calls the waiter to bring tea, it must be when A's cup is empty; every time When singing in karaoke, he also quietly clicked on A's "famous songs".
Of course, A is not an idiot. Although he doesn’t say it on the surface, A knows in his heart: This guy is definitely attracted to me, but since he doesn’t say it, then I’ll just pretend to be stupid.
After a while, they had a dinner party on the weekend, and the boy didn’t come. Because everyone saw that he was interested in A, they encouraged A to call the boy and ask him to come out. At that time, A I also thought: "I'll call you personally and I won't believe you won't come out." But when I called, the boy said, "I have a date today and I really can't get away."
After hearing this, A felt cold in his heart: It turns out that he has a girlfriend. Did I think too much before?
Although A didn't have much feelings for this boy, but when he thought about all the kindness he had shown to him before, A felt a little disappointed in his heart.
When he went to work the next day, the boy brought breakfast to A as usual. A took the opportunity to taunt him, "Hey, aren't you afraid that your girlfriend will be jealous?"
No Thinking of the boy saying: "What girlfriend? Where did I get my girlfriend?"
After hearing this, the colleague next to him asked: "Then didn't you say you went on a date yesterday?" When the boy heard this, He smiled and said, "That was to play games with my buddies. If I hadn't said it was a date, you would have called me out." After hearing this, everyone winked at A, which meant "See, he still likes you." Although A didn't say anything at the time, he felt as if he had taken a reassurance and felt instantly happy.
I believe everyone can imagine the following story, so I won’t go into details. Let’s go back to our previous question:
How to impress a girl Start paying attention to you and let her emotions fluctuate due to you?
The answer is actually very simple: you just need to be nice to her and treat her like a girlfriend, but the point is you You can't show your feelings to her, let alone express your feelings to her, and occasionally ignore her.
In this way, she will keep thinking between "Is he trying to chase me?" and "I seem to be overthinking." Swinging back and forth from time to time, you will pay more and more attention to you, and you will have a strong interest in you, and your mood will fluctuate as a result.
When a girl's mood is affected by you for a long time, you will be in her. The traces left in my heart are getting heavier and heavier. If I pursue her at this time, I will get twice the result with half the effort.
In fact, this is the trick that girls are best at, because when a girl likes you, she will often not let you go. You feel it, but when she doesn't like you, she often shows it clearly, because a real master will never show his trump card to the other party.
