When a boy confesses to a girl he doesn’t like, although he is very happy that someone likes him, he doesn’t want to accept it because of a moment of softness, otherwise it will hurt each other. So when faced with a girl you don't like confessing her love, how should you tactfully reject her confession? What can I do without hurting her?
1. Be very clear when rejecting other people’s confessions
If a girl likes you and has reached the point where she takes the initiative to confess to you, then it can be said that she really, really likes you. She likes you so much that she can't help but want to come and talk to you. Even if you just reply with a "hmm", she will be so happy that it seems like flowers are blooming in her heart. Moreover, she must be worried about gains and losses in the process of chasing you. She will be sweet and sad for a while, and she will show you her sincerity.
Therefore, if you like it, please cherish your sincerity, and if you don't like it, don't use cold violence. I am extremely disgusted with those who don't like girls, and adopt the cold and violent strategy of "ignoring her" when faced with a girl's confession. Because you don't like it, just say it openly: I'm sorry we're not suitable/I think it's good to be friends, or use a tactful method: I have someone I like/I don't want to fall in love now. If you use a very hurtful way when facing a girl's confession, it will be a disaster for the girl who treats her sincerely.
Because, for a young and beautiful girl, her sincerity is very precious, her youthfulness is only once, her enthusiasm is rare, and it is very likely that she will only be able to I am so attracted to a person that I can't sleep at night because I love him so much that I want to pursue that boy.
So, even if you don’t like her, don’t hurt her. If it affects you, don’t give her a chance to daydream. Even if she wakes up from her dream, it might not be a bad thing to gently wake her up.
2. How to tactfully reject other people’s confessions
Many boys actually know that they cannot hurt a girl’s feelings, so if they want to tactfully refuse, what should they say specifically so as not to hurt her? Woolen cloth? Here are several explanations for your reference:
1. In fact, I don’t hate you, but now I have more feelings than The more important thing in love is work/study.
2. Actually, I am not ready to fall in love yet.
3. I feel that I am not yet mature enough to fall in love.
4. I hope you can understand that I don’t want to destroy the friendship between us.
5. I have someone I like. I’m sorry, but you are very good and deserve to meet someone who likes you.
Finally, I suggest boys not to give hope to girls they don’t like, but to keep a distance when getting along, and don’t let girls feel like you. Only in this way can you fundamentally prevent it.If a girl you like confesses her love to you, you will not be limited to the embarrassing situation of rejecting the girl.