Confessing love is a stressful thing, especially when the girl you like is also your best friend in life. If you don’t want to be given the good guy card, then you need to pay attention to the following points during the confession process.
1. Don’t rely too much on the other person
Before confessing, you need to clarify your mentality and purpose. If you simply want to tell her how you feel, don't expect a response. Because love is a matter for both parties, not a game for one person. Therefore, before confessing your love, you need to accept the possibility of rejection and do not pin your happiness on the other person.
2. Be fully prepared
Before confessing, you need to be fully prepared. First of all, you need to know whether the other person already has a boyfriend or is pursuing someone else. Secondly, you need to choose a suitable time and place to express your love. Finally, you need to prepare your psychological quality and language skills.
3. Express your true feelings
When confessing, you need to express your feelings honestly. Don't use flowery words to cover up your true feelings, as this will only make the other person think you are acting. Instead, you need to express your inner thoughts in simple and clear language, and let the other party feel your sincerity.
4. Respect the other person’s choice
Whether the other person accepts your confession or not, you need to respect her choice. If she rejects you, then you need to accept the outcome and stop pestering her. If she accepts you, then you also need to respect her wishes and not be too dependent on her.
5. Maintain friendship
No matter what the outcome of your confession is, you need to maintain your friendship with the other person. If she rejects you, then you can tell her that you hope to remain friends. If she accepts you, then you also need to remember that love is just a part of life, and friendship is more precious and long-lasting.
When expressing your love, you need to be honest, confident, respectful and kind. Only in this way can the other party truly feel your sincerity and love.
