A girl’s mind is very complicated. When you confess to a girl, her rejection of you does not necessarily mean that she does not like you. There can be many possible reasons for this. It may be a test of your sincerity, or it may be a test of your sincerity. You can't accept this relationship too quickly...
It's normal to be rejected when you confess your love. The key is how you face your future relationship with the girl after your confession is rejected.
First of all, you have to think clearly about a very important thing, that is, after careful consideration, do you really like her? Tell me why you like her.
If you really like it and can’t let go, the answer is of course to continue, otherwise.
"The person who truly loves you will never leave you. Even if he has thousands of reasons to give up, he will always find a reason to persist."
The vast sea of ????people. , when you meet the person who makes you think about it day and night, how can you give up after a rejection.
Secondly, judge by your relationship with the girl.
You have only known each other for a few days through "Shake" or chat software, and have never even met in person, so there is no need to continue this kind of rejection, just let it go and choose the next one.
Also, if you and the girl have been together for many years, then you need to make it clear whether the girl regards you as a "buddy". If the relationship is usually ambiguous and you have hinted it many times, then continue.
On the contrary, it is more suitable to be friends. Finally, it depends on the girl's mood and attitude when she refuses.
When you refuse, there is no hesitation at all. If you are not in a good mood, then don’t think about it. Otherwise, try again.
One thing to remember: Once you decide to confess your love, you must be responsible for yourself and the girl. Never do it impulsively or on a whim.
The reason why confessions are rejected is that boys often don’t take girls into consideration.
You must know that confession is a sacred thing, and what is needed is "the right time, the right place, and the right people."
When walking in life, we will encounter girls who are all different. They like different girls, hate them the same, and get angry in different ways.
Therefore, you must first put yourself first and live your own life first.
If you don’t use your time and energy to improve yourself, but waste your time and energy on people who don’t know how to cherish you, you will always gain more than you lose in the end.
Furthermore, if you don’t have a lot of knowledge reserves, how can you provide value to girls.
Blindly expressing your love will only increase the boredom of girls, because you are constantly asking for it, but girls do not take the initiative to give.
Second, while living your own life well, do things that meet girls’ expectations.initiative.
Find out and understand some of the girls’ thoughts on rejecting you. For example, if a girl says, “Let’s be friends,” what is the real reason why she chose this sentence to reject you.
Of course, to be friends means that we don’t know you well yet and have little contact with you, so we need to get along with you for a long time.
Don’t foolishly think that the girl has rejected you at this time.
If you really don’t know, then you need to have a good relationship with her best friend (someone close to her), who may be able to help you understand this.
Third, for a girl, the feeling you give her is not the feeling of love, so don’t treat her like a girlfriend. treat her.
This will conflict with her positioning of your relationship, which will make her feel bad.
Since you have chosen to continue, you have to reshuffle the cards, get to know her again, and get along with her again.
I hope you can cheer up from the rejection of your confession and continue to pursue love.
The suffering in love is something you have to go through.
Only when you clearly understand yourself and are determined to make yourself better, can you get closer to the sweetness of love.
Girls will still take the initiative to come to you as before, play with you, eat together, or even watch movies together. In this case, you have to learn how to get along with girls and date them. In the process, it gives girls the feeling of being in love and guides them to establish a love relationship with you.
