1. I forgot to buy chicken legs for my wife and was stabbed to death...

　2. I didn't remember White Day and was slapped by my girlfriend...

　3. My girlfriend was angry She just wants me to kneel down and admit her mistake...

With the proliferation of "sissy" culture, many men have lost their masculinity and are abused by some violent girlfriends. Faced with this In an unequal love relationship, what should a boy do?

What should a boy do if his girlfriend is violent?

1. Learn to protect yourself

Weakness is a sin. As a man being played by a violent girlfriend, he is really too weak.

Strengthen physical exercise so that you can protect yourself from harm when you are bullied.

Change your thinking psychologically. It’s not that you can’t do anything to girls, but it depends on the specific situation. When girls shit on your head and you can still endure it, then... (completely I don’t know how to express it).

If you are a servant, you will be loyal, if you are a master, you will be in danger. This is morality. Don't let the rules limit you, make the rules work for you.

2. Break up with your girlfriend

Since your girlfriend has violent tendencies, it means that you cannot simply break up with her. get along with each other.

Rather than worrying about how to get along with a girl who has violent tendencies all day long, it is better to find a girl who is not violent.

How do you reason with a girlfriend who has violent tendencies? She gets violent when she disagrees, and throws away whatever she grabs. When dating such a girlfriend, you have to worry about personal danger. You're still having a ridiculous love affair. Break up with her as soon as possible!

3. Correct your girlfriend’s thinking

Your girlfriend has violent tendencies, which is her habitual way of solving problems and conflicts. In a love relationship , if you can communicate with your girlfriend seriously when she calms down and let her deal with the problem with a rational attitude, it may be an effective method.

The key to whether it is effective lies in whether you can correct your girlfriend’s thinking. Some girlfriends may be good at correcting their shortcomings; some girlfriends will not respond when you point out that they have violent tendencies. This will trigger her violent tendencies again.

Therefore, this must also be judged according to the specific situation of the girlfriend.

Why do girlfriends tend to be violent?

Violent tendencies are characteristics of a certain type of people. When they are in trouble Tend to solve problems violently.

They believe that convincing people with principles and virtues is redundant. Their outlook on life may be affected by their special growth environment, life experiences, and cliques.Lobbying and influencing each other, etc.

Previous violent behavior gave them an advantage in interpersonal relationships. They felt that the other party was afraid, compromised, and in awe, and gained a sense of superiority and success. This strengthened the continuation and escalation of the perpetrator's violent tendencies.

The girlfriend’s violent tendencies are not limited to physical blows, but also include throwing things, smashing things, abusing small animals, verbal abuse, cold violence and other manifestations.

People with violent tendencies usually have the following characteristics:

1) Long-term low self-esteem

2) A sense of isolation

3 ) Lack of social skills and self-affirmation

4) History of mental illness

5) Strong possessiveness and jealousy

People with high risk of violence: those who like to sleep in and people who love junk food.

Scientific research shows that eating more fish (rich in omega-3 fatty acids) can make violent patients less impulsive and stay calm.