As the saying goes, rabbits don’t eat grass beside their nests. If they like a girl they are very familiar with, they really don’t know where to start. But in fact, most couples develop slowly from friends, so if you really like them, be brave enough to pursue them. So how should you pursue a familiar girl?
First of all, you must know that most girls are very sensitive, so when you When the other party shows a little bit of affection, the other party will be able to detect it to some extent, especially the familiar girls. At this time, her psychology will become the following two states:
The first one: the psychology is very complicated. Sometimes she will find that she is very happy to get along and chat with you, but sometimes she will be a little bit Fear, because I have an ambivalence about refusing to welcome you who intrudes into my peaceful life. (Her mentality is not intentional, but a girl’s natural reservation and fear of injury)
The second type: Because they are very familiar, they have become accustomed to letting both parties stay in a comfortable area like friends. After discovering that you have the idea of ????pursuing her, because you don't want to change, you don't want to enhance the relationship.
So what you have to do now is to take a step back appropriately and create some mysterious feelings. This will be beneficial to the relationship. develop.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that you suddenly stop contacting the other party, but that you reduce the frequency of contact and spend more time investing in yourself compared to before.
For example, maybe you and this girl used to chat every day, so now you should take a step back and chat again every one or two days. And during this period, you can update your life updates in your circle of friends several times, preferably when you go out to eat with other girls. This is called pre-selection, and its function is to make this familiar girl realize that you don’t just know her. Friends of the opposite sex to achieve the effect of enhancing one's competitiveness.
In addition, chat interaction can also appropriately convey some of your own changes, including tone, content, and atmosphere. Because both of you are too familiar, only when you change will you become more attractive and mysterious, which will make the girl feel less familiar with you and make her want to get to know you again.
It usually takes a week to half a month to complete this step.
After this period of time has passed, we must learn to flirt and actively promote the development of the relationship.
The following are examples of flirting with girls during chat. If we talk about food with girls, then we can say this:
Male: The skewers at a certain store in Chengdu are delicious. If you become a foodie, I will definitely recommend it to you. (Guiding food topics)
Female: I am also a foodie!
Man: Ha, let’s go eat together that day. (Throw out vague invitations reasonably and be prepared to promote the relationship)
Female: Okay, but I’m not very good at eating spicy food.
Male: It’s not spicy, but I think you’ll blush. (Ambiguous implantation, ready to flirt)
Female: Why?
Male: Because I’m afraid that I can’t help but stare into your eyes.
Female: Tsk, I’m afraid you’ll blush! (If the girl will chat along, that means there’s a good chance)
Male: Haha, you want you to stop being so mean to me Discharge~ (Assume girls are chasing us, ensure your own frame)
Female: Then I will stun you.
Male: Corona, you are responsible. (Guidance)
Female: How to be responsible?
Male: Send me home, but after I faint, you can't do anything dishonest. (Flirting)
Girl: You want to be beautiful.
Male: Haha, let’s go tomorrow! (Confirm the invitation and promote the relationship)
Female: That’s it!
This kind of chat case In fact, it is flirting and ambiguity before dating a girl, so that both parties will have the feeling of pursuing or being pursued. One of the key points of flirting is to add some picturesque descriptions, so that both parties can have an immersive and loving state.
In addition, you should remember to get back on track in time after flirting. For example, if the last sentence is okay, or we will go tomorrow, that is Return to the normal chatting state in time, otherwise it is not good to keep flirting. Instead, it’s most appropriate to let girls experience being flirted with and then get back on track.
Invitations pave the way for the advancement of the relationship, and coupled with appropriate flirting, even if both parties are familiar with each other, it can actually bring about new breakthroughs and progress.
Generally speaking, it is actually easy to pursue a girl if you are familiar with her, because both parties are familiar with her. It only takes a few tricks and a little initiative in your heart to improve the relationship.
