It is undeniable that it is much easier for boys to have certain capital to get out of singles. But if we use these capital that are beneficial to us, will we really not be able to find our significant other?<br/ >

Of course not. Many times, if you want to get out of singles, you don’t need the capital, but the self-affirmation in the relationship. technology.

Self-affirmation, simply put, means recognizing yourself reasonably and correctly, without being blindly confident or excessively inferior.

At this moment, some friends must be unconvinced and retort: ??That’s just me.

The fact is that most people just use this method to try their best to cover up their inferiority complex about marriage and love.

Just like, countless friends are convinced that girls only care about money and face. In fact, you also know that this is an excuse for your inferiority complex.

You are not as humorous as others, not as considerate as others, not as sunny as others, not as responsible as others, not as motivated as others, and even the endurance of the girls you pursue is not as long as others.

That’s it, you just throw the blame on Qian and Face, completely exonerating yourself.

Then, you can curse with "peace of mind". Scumbag, bitch, snobbish... all kinds of ugly words are used to describe women. Are you...really sure that girls only fall in love with rich and good-looking people? Not really.

I have seen a topic on some forum before: Would you fall in love with a boy who is ugly but treats you well?< /p>

One of the upvoted answers is this:

I will fall in love with an ugly but interesting boy;

I will fall in love with an ugly but broad-minded boy I will fall in love with a boy who is ugly but confident and smart;

I will fall in love with a boy who is ugly but strives for the life he wants. Children fall in love;

I will fall in love with a boy who is ugly but respects and believes in my decision;

I will fall in love with a boy who is ugly but still cherishes this unsatisfactory world. A boy with a pure heart falls in love.

Friends, do you understand?

How much money you have and how good-looking you are are really not necessary conditions.

Their nature is the same as whether you are interesting, sunny, responsible, hardworking enough, and have a positive attitude towards life. They are all bonus points that distinguish you from others.

If we have to talk about the necessary conditions for love, we probably only need to have something to eat, a place to live, alive, and a man ( It is not necessary in special circumstances) is enough.

In other words, as long as you meet the above conditions, you will reach 60 points and pass, and there will definitely be someone of the opposite sex who matches your rank to like you. This is your capital to get out of the singles quickly.

Capital such as money, beauty, fun, sunshine, 180cm, 18cm, etc. are bonus points if you want to reach 70 points, 80 points, or even full marks. So friends, you should work hard and pursue.

You must have the skills of self-affirmation, and you cannot keep the idea of ????excusing yourself. Most girls are not as narrow-minded and snobbish as you think. Be brave, face yourself frankly, and throw away those excuses you make to excuse yourself. Correct your mentality, appreciate yourself every point, and put in the amount of effort you want in the kind of partner you want.