Consultation: If a girl says you are not my type, should I still pursue you?

I noticed a girl at a friend’s party. She was always quiet and occasionally exchanged a few words. I felt that she was my type, so I asked my friend for her WeChat account and started chatting with her on WeChat. As time went by, I felt more and more that she was someone I liked, so I started to pursue her. But as I chased her more and more, she began to avoid me. When pushed, she would tell me that I was not her type. If a girl says you are not my type, should I still pursue you?

Of course I didn’t want to give up just like that, so I asked my friend for advice. After giving me some advice, my friend told me that actually girls are quite fond of me. She was attracted to me, but because she grew up in a single-parent family and had been insecure since she was a child, she was afraid that she would be hurt when she was with me, so she rejected me on the pretext that I was not her type. My friend also advised me that if I really like her, I should take my time and wait until she puts down her guard and eliminates her worries before she can accept me. If a girl says you are not my type, should I still pursue you? How should I pursue you specifically?

Education reply:

strong>

Girls generally lack a sense of security, especially girls who grow up in single-parent families. There are indeed many such examples around me. There used to be a girl who also lived in a single-parent family. After her parents divorced, she lived with her mother. Affected by her family environment, she has always been relatively introverted and rarely communicates with her classmates. Although she has good looks and many suitors, she often rejects them. She has an instinctive fear of falling in love and does not dare to accept a relationship. She is afraid that she will be hurt as a result.

Should a girl still pursue you if she says you are not my type? The answer is of course yes. And the girl you like doesn't reject you because she doesn't like you, but she doesn't trust you.

If a girl says you are not my type, should I still pursue you? How should I pursue you specifically?

1. When she doesn’t fully believe in your feelings, you should not launch a fierce attack on her. You should try every means to make her understand you and trust you, slowly eliminate her wariness, take the initiative to find opportunities to get close to her, communicate more candidly with her, and gradually gain her understanding and trust.

2. In addition, you should also establish regular contact with her, gradually make her dependent on her through mutual interactions, and let this dependence form a habit. For example, greetings and so on.

3. In addition to communication, it also depends on how you do it. You know, everyone can say nice things, but how many people can do it? These girls will see it. No matter how nice you say it, she may not believe it., but your actual actions will be seen in her eyes and remembered in her heart. And silently make judgments and score you.

Should a girl pursue you even if she says you are not my type? When you make her trust you invisibly , after she gets used to your existence, believes in your character, and recognizes you as a person, she will slowly let go of her wariness towards you, and only then will she truly be willing to be with you. Of course, for those situations where a girl really refuses with a strong attitude, I suggest you not to stalk her, as this will leave a worse impression on the girl.