"Cute" can be said to be a high level of appreciation, but this kind of appreciation is only for girls. If a girl says "cute" to a boy, it may mean more than just appreciation. Then the girl says you are cute. Are you praising you or perfunctory?
1. A girl said you are so cute in public
If the girl you like is in a certain If someone calls you "cute" in public at a social event, then you have to feel sorry for yourself for a minute.
Then it can be proved very directly: she has discovered your good behavior, but she is calm inside. She doesn't want to offend you directly, but she also doesn't want to make the atmosphere too awkward by deliberately avoiding it.
Therefore, the simplest and most direct way is to recognize your brother.
In other words, if you are not a bitch type yourself, and you are praised as "cute" by the girl you like, then most of her subtext is that she wants to establish a clear sense of identity with you, but at the same time she does not want to let you down. People around you misunderstand your relationship.
She is not disgusted with you, nor is she attracted to you. She doesn’t want others to gossip and doesn’t want to damage the relationship, so “you are so cute” is actually a gentle rejection. She wants to tell you, "I just treat you as a little brother, and at the same time I really don't like you."
Because the word cute is both warm and distant, friendly and cold. So when a girl calls you cute in public, it may be that you are using too much force, and the girl is hinting to you, "Don't continue to show your kindness to her."
2. Being praised frequently by girls for being cute
Many times, when a girl doesn’t clearly show that she has a crush on you, she also has a lukewarm attitude toward you. But use "You are so cute" to praise you frequently.
In this case, the girl is actually trying to deal with you very seriously.
She may think that you are a nice person, very kind, or you have a cute appearance and personality, but she cannot bear to cause the friendship to break down because of her temporary dislike, so she will use this friendly method. to maintain the relationship.
3. After the girl said you are so cute, there was no more text
Then congratulations to you, this girl The real subtext means "You idiot."
The sentence "You are so cute" can be understood as the "awkward yet polite smile" in the chat expression.
It may be because of your boring topics, it may be because of the bombardment of boring emoticons, or it may be that this girl really has no emotions towards you or is even bored.
I am not familiar with you and want to maintain my reserved image. I can only choose a kind of person who looks gentle but is deeply cold.Momo's words "You are so cute~" will quickly end the topic.
If at this time you still don’t know and don’t evacuate the battlefield quickly, but instead feel complacent and activate a more violent consensus, then most girls will not continue to reply to you. When she can’t bear it anymore, she will naturally block you. .
4. Girls say you are so cute when they are moved
When you have prepared some kind of surprise and are moved When meeting this girl, she didn't say thank you, but repeatedly praised you "You are so cute, why are you so cute?"
In this case, it means that the girl has fallen for you. . But since there is no established relationship, girls are naturally shy about expressing their love, and will express their love with "You are so cute."
She thinks you are a treasure boy. What really impresses her is not your appearance and figure, but your inner interesting and lovely soul.
At the same time, after saying this sentence, she sends you signals of enthusiasm, admiration and other goodwill, which is enough to prove that her good impression of you has reached the window period.
At this time, as long as you say "I am not cute, you are my little cutie".
You must know that what a girl hopes to get at this time is not that you acquiesce in her praise, but that you can take the initiative to upgrade the relationship.
Therefore, if a girl rarely praises you for being cute, but expresses an extremely warm affection because of a certain touch, then her "cuteness" at this time is a signal to express that she likes you.
Seize this window period and take the initiative to upgrade the relationship. If you ignore this short-term halo effect, then girls will launch high-frequency attacks on you just like Scenario 2 in order to save face. He's cute and treats you like a younger brother.
