If you chase a girl only to show kindness without any thought, you will only become a bitch and a spare tire. If you delay in expressing your feelings, you are likely to be put into the friendship zone by the girl. So how do you chase girls?
It’s very simple, learn to play hard to get and make girls curious about you, so that girls will slowly agree to your pursuit.
However, many girls don’t understand what playing hard to get means, and they will even become very proactive when meeting a girl they like, asking them good morning and good night non-stop, and chatting for fear that the girl will ignore them. Slowly let yourself fall into a passive state and turn into kneeling and licking. Not only can't you catch up with the other person, but you also make the other person bored.
Some boys will use hard to get and play hard to get separately, thinking that they must play hard to get before they can play hard to get, but when getting along with girls, During the process, especially when the girl is not very interested in you, if you are just trying to get hold of you, it will seem too purposeful and the girl will see through it, so you must play hard to get.
Also, "Guzong" is suitable to be used when a girl already has a slight affection for you. If a girl doesn't have any feelings for you yet, you just "Guzong" to deliberately keep a distance from the girl. Girls will not feel your aloofness, but will ignore you because they don't even know who you are. So how should you play hard to get in pursuit of a girl?
1. Hide your needs and desires for girls
When a girl is not interested in you yet, the first thing to do is to hide your interest in her. Her needs and desires!
Treat her as a genderless friend, neither arrogant nor humble. Sometimes you even have to deliberately express that she is a good person, but you don't mean much to her, don't get me wrong. Then you proceed step by step, avoid being impetuous, seize the opportunity when you have the opportunity, create the opportunity when there is no opportunity, and if there is no opportunity, you can only save your strength and wait for the opportunity!
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2. Let girls have the desire to know you
When a girl knows that you are not approaching him with a strong purpose, the girl’s wariness towards you has been initially eliminated. Next, you need to make her want to know you. When she is aloof and willing to chat with you, it is the most critical step in "play hard to get".
Understand girls, cater to girls and let girls feel your interest.
Only by getting to know a girl and knowing her interests and hobbies can you find a topic and start a chat. Here you can learn some basic information about her through the girl’s circle of friends, which can effectively avoid not knowing what to talk about or checking her household registration. question.
When talking about catering to girls here, it does not mean that you should be a "licking dog" for girls, but that you should stand from the perspective of a girl, talk about some topics that interest her, and express your understanding and agreement with what the girl says, but you must not during chatLose your ground.
Next, you can use the trick of trying to catch the enemy to make girls get used to it and become dependent on you. Of course, the habit and dependence here are not achieved by asking for help or showing kindness every day, but by guiding her to do some things on her own initiative.
Because no matter what you have done, a girl may forget it, but if you let a girl do something she is interested in, she will always remember it. Share some small things in life with her every day and guide her to do the same. You share, for example
Take her to play games every day, give her a head to protect her, and help her solve problems as soon as possible and properly when she encounters them. As time goes by, when she encounters something interesting, the first thing she thinks of is to share it with you. When she plays games with others, she thinks that it would be more fun to play with you. When she encounters difficulties, she will think of you first. .
Such habits and dependence will lead to mood swings when "indulging" later.
In fact, "play hard to get" is just a love skill. If you want a long-lasting relationship, you need mutual attraction. If you don't know what to do, add and let me help you.
