Chatting on WeChat is very particular. Some small details can double the other person’s liking for you. However, chatting too casually will give people a perfunctory feeling. It’s easy to chat to death. Here’s how to chat with girls on WeChat. Chatting skills can make girls fall in love with chatting with you.

1. Opening

You can open the meeting in a way that assumes that you are already familiar with it.

In this way, in the social circle, people who are easy to get along with many people and are very popular are often those who are familiar with each other, and the same is true for WeChat. Let me give you two examples:

You can make fun of the other person’s avatar, for example

Your avatar looks quite cute, but cute girls are usually not tall (laughing).

A slightly confident opening, such as

We’ve all added each other as friends, but we didn’t even come over to say hello (laughing).

This way of opening is a way to quickly enhance your relationship.

2. Conversation

Many people are struggling with what topics to talk about with girls. In fact, the topic itself is not It’s not important. What’s important is whether you can lift your emotions so that the other party is willing to continue chatting with you. Then during the chat process, you can interact based on the following two principles:

Leave something for girls. The topic of your conversation is continued below

If you are telling stories, talking to yourself, or even saying some boring things that girls don’t understand, then girls will definitely reply to you, okay, oh, hehe, or Just stopped replying.

Therefore, be sure to leave something for the girl to talk to you about and leave room for her to reply.

Don’t use too many modal particles and nonsense

As the saying goes, too much speech will lead to mistakes. If you talk too much, you will also reveal your neediness and make girls think you are a low-value person. .

"Okay, then we will contact you tomorrow and go to bed early." Such a long sentence can be summed up in three words: "See you tomorrow."

　3. There is relaxation and relaxation

Many people think that humor is a way to quickly lift a girl’s mood. However, being blindly humorous will only make girls think you are a joke. , after having a certain amount of humor, be sure to intersperse some real things into the conversation, even if it doesn't sound so high value.

For example, what I often say is, "When I have nothing to do, I like to sit somewhere, have a drink, and listen to music. I feel pretty good."

Literary Youth The feeling of being petty bourgeoisie does not attract high-value girls, but it is a reflection of my life.

Of course, if you tell me as soon as you come up, most people will not want to deal with you.

4. Not guided by girls

Girls are very good at changing topics, but when the direction of the topic is completely guided by the other party and takes the initiative, then your space for replying will become narrower and narrower, and you will become Lower and lower value. Use keywords as much as possible to extend the topic.

For example, when you invite a girl on a date, she will give you a test: "There are so many beauties around you, why are you looking for me?" At this time, you accept the girl's guidance and reply that there are more or less beauties around you. Wrong.

Then you can start with the word "by my side": "When were you by my side? Why don't I remember."

3. End the chat

If I want to rely on WeChat chat to attract girls, then I have to end the chat appropriately and maintain a sense of mystery. Of course, I can’t end the chat too much. Sloppiness usually ends in the following situations.

1. End the chat when the other party stops talking.

There is a situation where, due to their own reasons, the other party stops talking and cannot retract or continue, and the entire conversation falls into a sluggish state. At this time, you can find your own reasons to leave and give the other person a step down.

For example, you can say this: It’s a pleasure chatting with you, but I have something to do. Let’s chat next time when I have time.

2. The conversation takes too long and you directly express your intention to end the chat.

For example: We have been talking about this until half past eleven in the evening. It’s time to take a rest. I have to go to work tomorrow. Sorry, let’s talk next time...whether you are I really want to rest, and it’s hard for the other party to refuse such a vague excuse.

Please remember that ordinary is the most real state. For example, use "I didn't expect to chat with you for so long. I thought I couldn't meet such a person", "I really want to" Yours” and so on. Only using the simplest language can create a warm atmosphere.

3. Use a natural transition to end the chat naturally

This method is more natural and the best to use. For example, if the mobile phone is out of battery and the data traffic exceeds the limit, it will It’s time to eat. These are all excuses and can be used, as long as they don’t seem too fake.

Flirting with girls on WeChat is very skillful. Some people can ask girls out or become girlfriends just by chatting for a short period of time, while some people still stay there no matter how long they chat with girls. You are a stranger, so if you want girls to fall in love with chatting with you, you still need to learn more chatting skills.