When you have been chasing a girl for a long time but the relationship has not progressed and you have entered her friendship zone, even if you get drunk one day and have the courage to confess your love, she may reject her as a joke. Therefore, when we chase girls, we must Upgrade the relationship in time to avoid entering the friendship zone. Then when getting along with a girl, how can you make her feel a heartbeat towards you and turn her into your girlfriend?
1. Create an impression contrast
Since we want to avoid entering the friendship zone and be this girl's boyfriend, first of all, our appearance must be Like her boyfriend.
For example, she prefers boys who are a bit more naughty, but you have always been an unkempt and unkempt boy in front of her. Then you might as well try to change yourself, take off your ripped jeans and T-shirt, and put on a generous casual suit. Trim a hairstyle that suits you, shave or trim your beard, and try not to miss details like your nails. Also pay attention to the folds of your clothes.
When you appear in front of her with a new look, she will definitely be amazed in her heart, and this kind of wonder may be the kind of feeling that makes her heart beat. After all, people are visual animals.
Therefore, if you have been chasing a girl for a long time and your relationship has not progressed, you might as well try to show her a different side of yourself to break her inherent impression.
If you have ever made all kinds of silly jokes with her, you might as well talk about movies and literature with her.
Or if you have ever approached her to either eat chicken or cheat, you might as well ask her to fuck you. Watch a movie at home,
When you break the inertial impression caused by getting along for many years, the relationship between you will become a little more subtle and ambiguous.
2. Properly create ambiguity
Let the girl you want to chase feel a heartbeat, just by The heart-pounding moment above is definitely not enough. The feeling requires many moments to piece together. Therefore, after we complete the first step, we need to take another step, and this step is called "creating ambiguity."
In the past, you either drank or had skewers, and except for rooftop parties, you would dance on the grave. Then, you can try to take her to watch movies, visit theaters and exhibition halls, or other more private social activities.
At this time, flirting again may be even more ambiguous to a certain extent.
Many boys can’t decide which girl they like, so they can use gestures, such as chatting happily while walking, or bumping into her lightly when joking to look at her. reaction.
If she crosses her hips angrily and says, "You are looking for death!", oh, then let her come over and have a taste of her chasing you.The taste is also good. Even if she is shaking her fists with murderous intent, being chased by the person she likes is still a pleasure.
3. Be proactive and confident
In addition to the above two theories, if you want to make girls develop The most important thing about the heartbeat feeling is the actual operation, so be proactive, confident, and brave enough to break through the relationship between you.
Many people think that since we have been friends for so long, will she have become accustomed to this identity? In fact, this is not the case. For most girls, switching identities from friends to lovers is inherently difficult. It’s normal and appropriate!
So you don’t need to worry too much!
We are very smart in love, smart enough to design every encounter in order to get closer to that person.
We are also very stupid in love. When we meet that person, we are so stupid that we can’t even say a sexy word.
In fact, in love, everyone is quite stupid.
But this is not because love makes people stupid. We are clear in our hearts about the gains and losses of interests and the twists and turns of karma.
The so-called love is the ordinary you, which exudes a unique light in my eyes.
The so-called love means that because I love you, I am willing to be a fool.
Finally, I want to say something sincere!
Maybe when you try the above methods, you can try again. When you walked up to her and confessed your love, she smiled shyly, then looked at you tenderly and said, I have been waiting for this moment for a long time.
The so-called friends may be just lovers who have not yet confirmed the relationship. In fact, you have already known each other tacitly and are inseparable.
It’s just that both people in this relationship are afraid to take the initiative, afraid that if they take a step forward, the other person will take a step back, so they are waiting for the person opposite to speak first.
