Boys should be particular about pursuing girls. They should be particular about chatting, dressing appropriately, dating, and giving gifts. Maybe one place didn't do well and was kicked out by the other party. Should boys give gifts to girls when they are chasing them?

There are generally two views on this matter. One is that gifts must be given; One is that it must never be given away.

First of all, you can give it away. Most of these views occur to noobs. These people believe that girls are born to be pets. Since they like the girl, they should express their sincerity by giving gifts, thereby deepening the girl's affection for them and ultimately encouraging the girl to agree to be with them. After receiving the gift, if the girl still disagrees, it means that their gift has not passed the test and they will only be more careful with the next gift. As long as he persists, the girl will become his girlfriend one day.

The second type is that you can’t. Most people who think they can’t give gifts happen after learning some skills. They think giving gifts is useless. In the process of chasing, giving girls gifts will reveal their neediness in advance, which will cause girls to be less interested in them. In the long run, this will also lead to an imbalance of investment between them and the girl, eventually forming the familiar kneeling licking. Therefore, in the eyes of these people, they not only require themselves to resolutely not give gifts to girls, but also attract and guide girls to invest and give gifts.

These two groups are opposed to each other and strongly disagree with each other on opinions. Let's look at an example: a friend a few days ago Ask me, my favorite girl said in the circle of friends that she wants an iPhone 13. Do you think if I buy it for her, will she agree to be with me?

I said No, you want it. Thinking like this makes chasing girls too simple, but he also said, isn't this good? If I do this, the girl will be very touched. If she is touched, at least her attitude towards me will be very different from before. This will be beneficial to our future pursuits. I told him that your idea is wrong, and if it is true as you said, as long as a girl likes something, you can just buy it and give it to her. This will help you pursue success, and others can easily pursue it. What about her? After some time, he asked my sister if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomorrow. What should I do?

I said to remember to clean up after myself on the date, and prepare a gift. , we want to give it to girls, but he said you forgot, didn’t you say you couldn’t give it before? I said brother, you are wrong again, now we not only want to give it, but also let the girl feel that we are very attentive. Now here comes the problem. During the pursuit, when he wanted to give a gift to a girl for the first time, his approach only made our pursuit feel moved. Being moved has a certain effect, but this effect is like eating. The effectiveness of the medicine remains the same and will gradually decline over time.

If you want to please a woman with emotion, due to the constraints of the drug's effect, you have to keep giving her gifts one by one. Moreover, in order to maintain the effect, the gifts you give Each gift must be more valuable and more thoughtful than the last. Otherwise, in the words of girls, it means you don’t love me anymore. Therefore, this kind of gift is like a huge bottomless pit, unless you have a golden mountain. Silver Mountain, otherwise you really can’t fill it.

Next, let’s take a look at the situation of giving gifts to girls for the second time. The reason why we chose this time is because of the timing. The reason is that I chose not to give it away before because the time was not mature enough, but now it is different, because all kinds of signs indicate that girls have become interested in us at this time, so our sense of need can be slightly exposed at this time. Otherwise, we ignore the availability of love.

In other words, girls will feel that I am interested in this boy, but he has not expressed any intention of further contact with me, so he will keep talking all day long. As time goes by, girls will become interested in us. There is very little interest. In addition, when we choose to give gifts to girls at this time, it will also take us to a higher level of attraction to girls and distinguish us from other ambiguous people.

Conclusion: Of course you still need to give gifts when chasing girls, but you have to pay attention to the timing. Many boys are eager to give gifts to girls, but in the end they spend money in vain because they fail to catch her, and feel very unhappy. Gifts can express your feelings and increase your goodwill, but only if the girl is already attracted to you. Remember, the purpose of gift-giving is to add icing on the cake, not to provide help in times of need.