Blind date is a good way for young people to get out of singles quickly, but it does not mean that blind date can be successful. After all the blind dates fail one after another, some boys will always inadvertently have such thoughts: I look good. I’m not ugly, and my family background is not bad. Why doesn’t the person I like like me?

However, blind dates always fail. Is it really because of looks? In fact, there are other reasons:

1. Too casual Wear casual home clothes and go on a blind date. To put it nicely, it will give people a casual feeling, but to put it bluntly, it will give people a feeling of not taking it seriously. In fact, this is often the reason why his blind dates always fail.

Then you need to prepare yourself carefully. Failure on a blind date is not a bad thing, but it can make you reflect on your behavior during the blind date. For example, during this blind date, you fell in love with the other person, but the other person didn't like you. Is it because of your conversation or your clothing? Then you can correct it. The reason for correction is not to please him, but to make yourself better and better. Know that no one is willing to look past your sloppy appearance to understand your heart.

2. Excessive self-esteem

This kind of person is often unable to shame himself into going on a blind date, and he cares a lot about other people’s rumors. He will listen to other people’s words about how the blind date went, and his The burden on my heart further increased, and I naturally became prejudiced against the relative. In the end, I was forced to make the choice of blind date, and because I was afraid of being "embarrassed" if the blind date failed, I didn't have the confidence to move forward. However, blind dates always failed more than succeeded, and the number of love at first sight was always too few. Therefore, blind dates It takes a strong heart and persistence.

You must know that fate is not something that can come just by saying it. Others getting married early only proves that love comes earlier. Your love coming later does not mean that it will not come. Try to change your mentality. Treat this as an interview. Yes, it is an interview. Interview all kinds of people that others think are good. To understand other people's living conditions, treat it as a communication and cultivate your own conversational skills. when. This will release your mood a lot.

Nowadays, blind dates are all for the purpose of getting married. Whether the conditions in all aspects match or not has become the key factor for success or failure. .

Blind date is actually a very good channel for people who are destined to get married eventually. However, at this stage, there is a certain deviation in the understanding of blind dates between the elders and those of us who are of marriageable age. The elders' understanding of blind dates is: if the hard conditions such as house and job are met, it is a high-quality partner. Character and character are basically not considered. The younger generation’s understanding of blind date is: they want to find someone they can chat with., have common hobbies, meet their own requirements in all aspects, etc. What matters is not the external hard conditions, but more importantly the person's own qualities.

The failure of blind dates again and again does not mean anything. It's just because your fate hasn't arrived yet, it's just that your Snow White is waiting for you at a corner. When you meet love at the corner, you need to believe that love will definitely come. Failure is just because you didn't meet the best, because the best is always left for the last. Believe that the time is not yet ripe and wait until the day when all things should come.