When chatting with a girl on WeChat, the most painful thing is that you send a message to the girl and it is already the next day when she replies to you. What's even more painful is that she just ignores you and doesn't reply to your messages.
Many friends don’t know what to do with this kind of problem. If you wait for her reply, you don't know how long you have to wait. If you don't wait, you are afraid of missing out. In fact, there are many techniques for chatting with girls. In order to help you all, today I will bring you the techniques for chatting on WeChat to get girls to reply instantly.
1. Keep the pace of chatting
Because girls belong to We are visual animals, so it is important to keep a clean and tidy picture when chatting with girls. In order to show that they are very literary, many boys usually write a long story. The dense text will make people feel uncomfortable. Think about it if you say "I remember one time when I went on an outing and found some cute dogs, but what I couldn't believe was that those dogs were eating the corpses of their own kind, so I was going to get out of the car and take a look. , at this time, my companion held my hand and told me not to get close, saying that the stray dog ??had a virus, but I didn’t mind it, so I took him home and asked him to go home and take good care of him. It was so pitiful. I gave him a name, Xiaoqiang, and now he is very healthy. "Girls don't want to reply to such a long article, they just don't want to finish reading it.
2. Don’t ask and answer
You must have encountered this problem. When you first started chatting with a girl, the girl responded well, and then after chatting for a few words, the girl The replies get slower and slower until they don’t reply to you at all.
For example:
Male: Hi, hello
Female: Hello (1 minute later)
Male: What are you doing? (After 10 seconds)
Female: Watching TV (after 3 minutes)
Male: Have you eaten yet? (After 10 seconds)
Female: Not yet (after 5 minutes)
Male: Why haven’t you eaten yet (after 10 seconds)
Female: (no reply)
Do you encounter situations like this often? Chatting is to build a sense of comfort. Such a question-and-answer chat method will only make girls feel speechless.
You have no interaction with the girl at all, and in order to prevent the topic from ending, you keep looking for topics. It seems that you are chatting, but in fact you have not let the girl participate in your conversation. , the result of course is that girls are slow to reply or even don’t reply to you at all.
3. Don’t keep talking
This keeps talking, but of course it is also divided into time periods , sometimes you can do this, but there is aIt won’t work at that time, so why not:
Male: What are you doing? (9 a.m.)
Female: Going to work
Male: How are you doing today? ?Can you share it?
Female:...
As a boy, you must pay attention to details. Just like chatting with a girl. If you chat with her early in the morning, it's not an important matter. Aren't you talking nonsense? If the girl is busy and you keep talking non-stop, it will not only arouse her disgust, It will also affect her work. It would be amazing if such a chat can lead to a good impression.
So the next time you meet a girl who treats you like this, is it because she is unwilling to reply to you? Or does she have no time to reply to you?
Generally speaking, when chatting with girls, The most suitable time is around 10 o'clock in the evening. At this time, most girls have taken a break from get off work, and most of them are also chatting, so the response rate will be very high. Remember, girls tend to be sentimental at night, and it is easiest to arouse her feelings.
IV. Find a suitable topic
If you know the girl’s living habits best, choose to chat with the girl when she is relatively free during the day.
For example, if a girl is a white-collar worker, she will definitely not have much free time during the day. She has to go to work and has more free time at night; if a girl is a nurse, she may have to work night shifts. You can follow the girl’s circle of friends to learn some information.
Of course, you may say that you don’t know anything about the girl’s work and life, so what should you do? Again, circle of friends.
The girl will definitely post in Moments. You can comment. If the girl is interested, she will even take the initiative to chat with you privately. Do you still have to worry about the girl being slow to reply?
5. Mobilization Girls’ Emotions
Let the girl participate in your conversation
When chatting with the girl, learn to guide the girl to speak instead of asking her questions and answers.
For example:
Male: Hi, hello
Female: Hello
Male: What are you doing?< /p>
Female: Watching TV
Male: It’s the Korean drama XXXX, which is very popular recently (you can guess what girls like from the circle of friends)
Female: No , it’s XXXXX
Male: Haha, I know this too, the male protagonist in it is super handsome (it was brought to a point by a drama)
Female: That’s right. .....(Starting to talk about the male protagonist)
Male: I think so too, and more (learn to agree with the girl’s point of view, and continue to guide the girl to speak)
Female: ( Continue blablabla)
Once a girl’s emotions are aroused by you, it won’t be a problem to reply instantly.
