When you like a girl, you inevitably want to know how she feels about you, but you find it difficult to ask directly. Today I will teach you 5 tips to help you find out if she likes you too.
1. Observe personality
Don’t start judging who the other person is after reading a few messages.
If the girl you like is a tomboy on the outside but a little princess on the inside, and you invite her to go hiking, mountain climbing, or jogging in the wild, there is no way to impress her.
Because what she longs for is like a princess and a prince, exquisite tea restaurants, romantic dates and afternoon tea.
The woman you like seems to be a strong woman, but she longs for family life in her heart, but you invite her to dine at a high-end restaurant. Red wine, steak, and Western pastries are not tempting to her at all, but are not as good as... Cooking for two people at home is more deeply rooted in her heart.
2. Attitude in chatting with you
Law: "I will chat with you only if I like you. If I don't like you, I will chat awkwardly every minute."
No one will chat with someone they don't like. If she likes you to chat with her, then at least she still has a good impression. Even if she finds someone to accompany her and feels empty, lonely and cold, she will be the first to think of you, so congratulations to you first.
So how to judge?
· If she sends a lot of emoticons to express her mood when chatting with you, then her favorability is UP!
< p> · If words such as "so uncomfortable", "what are you doing", "alone", "very happy", etc. often appear in a girl's replies, the favorability level will be UP!· If there are no "gossips and complaints" in the girl's messages, this is good news that she is in the friendship zone and likes boys, and her favorability will be UP!
· If you Look for her, and she looks for you. If you interact well, your favorability will go up!
· If you can keep interacting every day for a month, your favorability will go up!
· If she never has Show that you are impatient, and your favorability level will increase!
(Finally, use a big move)
· If she can keep chatting (on the phone) with you with high interest for more than an hour, Even longer, the favorability will UP UP!
(The longer the time, the harder it is to pretend)
3. Physical contact
A girl who really likes you, believe me, must be reserved.
No matter how tomboyish or strong a woman the other person is, a girl’s biological nature determines that when she meets a man she likes and admires, she will be like a “little bird”.
Even ifThe other person is a Western-style person who likes to cuddle with everyone. When you see someone you really like, you will feel a little uncomfortable.
Of course, boys don’t have to worry about “little deer bumping into each other” in their hearts. Maybe the other party is a more informal girl who likes to express goodwill with hugs and other things.
But the indicator we want to observe here is the "reserved body touch" reaction, and you will know what she means to you.
When you have some interaction, you can pay a little attention to her reaction when you approach her.
For example, you usually sit opposite each other, and now you can find an excuse to sit side by side; if she is not obviously unhappy, that is good news;
You can get along in the future. Sometimes, there are natural and casual touches, such as accidentally touching her fingers when picking up something, a gentle hug on the shoulder and a hand on the back when crossing the road.
If she is interested in you, she may acquiesce, blush, feel embarrassed to look at you, but want to look at you.
If she doesn’t like you, she will have a tendency to physically move away from you to avoid your touch.
4. Contrast
If a girl has a crush on you, as long as you are nearby, if she is usually an introvert, she may become more active than usual, laugh more, and be more cheerful. I want to leave a positive and optimistic impression on you.
If she is an extrovert, she may be quieter when she is near the person she likes, wanting to look but not daring to look, and avoiding eye contact with you. Then she must like you.
5. Will take the initiative to feel sorry for you
When a girl likes you, she may not necessarily take the initiative to pursue you, but I will definitely take the initiative to feel sorry for you and care about your physical condition. Especially if you indicate that you are not feeling well.
Think back to how your ordinary friends, casual acquaintances, good friends, close friends, best friends, and parents behaved when you expressed that you were sick.
You know that when a girl likes you, she will also define her role as your "close" person. She will not only talk about the relationship, but also take action. (This is based on the fact that you have already had a certain amount of ambiguous interaction)
She will take the initiative to ask because of her condition. During the communication process, the girl will express inquiry or concern about your current status, situation, feelings, etc. , taking the initiative to raise questions about you represents strong interest and concern, and at this time, if she wants to come over to see you and give you food, it means she likes you.
She can’t help but get close to you and often appears within your range of activities, which means she likes to be around you.