The key to chasing a girl is attraction, not just being nice to her or kneeling and licking her. Even if a licking dog catches a girl, the girl is probably a scumbag. So how can you chase a girl without being a bitch?
1. Put away your sense of need
Many boys are chasing her When I was a girl, I would only give gifts + treat + care. I wanted to rip my heart out to prove to the girl how much I like her.
Sometimes I find that a girl responds well, and he is like a wild horse running wild, constantly showing his affection.
But what I got in the end was: You are very good, but you are not my type. I have no feelings for you!
You have to know that almost all boys are like this. In this situation, why should a girl choose you?
Moreover, if a boy shows too much eagerness and desire, the girl will feel confident about hanging on to you, or she will get tired of it. In this case, she will meet a scumbag. It will be difficult for you to escape.
Don’t expose your need too early, and don’t be sure of it, and don’t express your love in a hurry, otherwise you won’t be able to be friends in the future.
"Things are rare and valuable." The more unique a person is, the more he will stand out among the many boys, making her interest in you only increase.
First, improve your own temperament and have something you love. No matter what it is, spend time doing it. Take the time away from playing with your mobile phone to study and immerse yourself in your hobbies.
When you have a rich life, you will be more attractive to girls. Compared with those boys who have no connotation but only desire, you are a winner!
2. Refuse to kneel and lick
< p> It’s not that many boys are not good, it’s just that they lose their superiority over girls by kneeling and licking them blindly.There is a boundary value between everyone. As long as you cross the boundary, you are likely to develop in the direction of kneeling and licking, and the balance of the sexes will also begin to tilt.
If you want a girl to chase you, you must position yourself accordingly. Your relationship with the girl directly determines what you can talk about.
If you are just an ordinary friend, it would be superfluous for you to say good morning and good night every day;
If you are familiar with each other, your appropriate concern can make her like you more;
If you are a little ambiguous, you can comfort each other but you should not talk about sex boldly...
We all understand the principle of licking a dog until there is nothing left, but you can really tolerate it when facing a girl. Never stop being attentive.
If this is the case for you, then learn the trick of "play hard to get". First of all, you must have confidence in yourself. That kind of humility, loss of reason, blind tolerance, and placing your own happiness on othersYou really can't learn from the dog licking on your body.
3. Guide girls to pay for you
The third point tells you a trick: "Let her pay for you." You pay." Yes, you heard it right, let a girl pay for you, and she will fall in love with you.
Think about it from another perspective, if you can get something without spending a penny, will you cherish it? And if you spend money or even spend a lot of money to buy something, even if you later find that it is useless , you won’t be willing to throw it away immediately.
Similarly, in the eyes of women, boys who can be obtained without any effort are also worthless.
Generally speaking, girls are happy to pay for the boy they like, because this boy is valuable in the eyes of girls and can develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend.
So you have to know this formula: liking him = paying for him. But sometimes the formula can be changed on both sides and it's still valid, that is: paying for him = liking him.
We can often do this when chatting:
Ask a girl to wake you up on WeChat;
If you want to say something to her, call her Come over instead of you;
Let her recommend good songs or classic movies to you;
Ask her for advice when you encounter problems and let her help you with suggestions;< /p>
Of course! This is based on the fact that you have become friends, even somewhat ambiguous.
These three points may seem simple, but they require everyone to feel them carefully. If a boy who does these three points doesn’t have a girlfriend, I lose!
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