When many boys chase girls, many ridiculous things will happen, such as accidentally embarrassing themselves when showing off their strengths. In life, it is rare to fall in love at first sight, or to dislike you all of a sudden.
So when boys chase girls, what are the points-deducting behaviors?1. Questions about household registration check
In What are you doing? Have you got off work? Have you eaten? Where is your home? Where do you work? Many boys always like to ask girls these questions when chatting because they don’t know what to say.
There are also some boys who insist on saying good morning and good night every day even if girls ignore them. In fact, these two ways of chatting are very objectionable to girls. They will make girls think that you have nothing to do every day and only talk boring words.
2. Blind giving
To put it nicely, it is called giving, and to put it worse, it is kneeling and licking. We used to say that if you want to chase a girl, you should be nice to her. But the goddess must choose Prince Charming in the end, not the knight.
On the one hand, girls choose the best solution within the range of options; on the other hand, always surrounding girls will make her feel that you are not of high value and can only kneel and lick you to make amends.
Because there are valuable boys and there are many excellent girls around them, so there is no need to kneel down and lick a suitor. Only those who have low self-worth and do not have the opportunity to contact too many outstanding women will show a low profile when meeting a girl.
3. Blind gift-giving
On the Internet, we often see girls saying that they want a boyfriend for themselves. Give gifts such as lipstick, bags, jewelry, skin care products, etc. So when some boys are pursuing girls, they will also give them these gifts.
Although girls like to receive gifts, it is inappropriate to give such gifts when they are not familiar with the person. First of all, you are not her boyfriend, so don’t give gifts from the perspective of your boyfriend; secondly, if a girl doesn’t like you, she will feel embarrassed when receiving the gift and feels that she owes you a favor; finally, even if the girl accepts the gift, she will not give it to you. I will like you for this and will only treat you as a cash machine.
4. All talk but no action
When some people are chasing girls, they only care about actions and dare not express their feelings; while some people only talk about it when chasing girls. Said but never acted on it.
This type of boy who only talks but does not act may always express his love to the other person, but he has never understood what the other person likes and what hobbies he has, let alone trying to integrate into her life. Maybe you always look for topics to chat with the other person, but she always shows no interest. this is notBecause girls are difficult to deal with, but you are too careless.
5. Brainless echo
For example, when girls laugh at themselves, some boys will say they are right. You have also discovered that it would be better to change it as soon as possible. Some boys will even make it a humorous topic.
But girls won’t find it funny, and they will think you don’t respect her. So when a girl laughs at herself, we should comfort and affirm her instead of mindlessly echoing her.
There is another situation where no matter what girls say, boys will say it is right; no matter what selfies girls post, boys will say it is beautiful; no matter what girls do, boys will say it is good. Complimenting blindly is also a kind of mindless echo, which will make her feel that you are not sincere.
In short, when chasing a girl, don’t always revolve around her, don’t give blindly, don’t be half-hearted, and don’t go along with it without thinking. Girls like boys who are independent, career-oriented, responsible and dedicated. It is more important to be yourself than to please girls.
