Why do girls often appear so cold after adding them to WeChat? In fact, a large part of the reason is because the quality of your WeChat Moments is not up to par and is not attractive to girls.
So how to create a high-quality WeChat circle of friends that is attractive to girls?
< h2>1. Wrong way to post on Moments1. Too high-profile.
Nowadays, there are many Moments photography services, which allow you to spend one or two hundred yuan to take a few photos of you on some yacht or private jet to show off your awesomeness.
Such photos must not be posted. Once posted, it will really make girls feel unreliable. There is a saying that "be low-key in life and do things in high-key". This sentence is not unreasonable. Therefore, no matter you are really rich, or a nouveau riche, or you just took photos like this on a whim, don’t post such photos to Moments casually. The most important thing is that the high profile is inconsistent with reality.
Such a circle of friends is not of high quality, and will only give normal girls the impression that they are difficult to pursue, unmatchable, and unreliable. At most, you will attract some "material girls" who are just after your money, rather than those who value your moral character.
2. Piles of advertisements
There are many buddies who are either doing micro-business or sales industry, and at first glance at the contents of Moments, most of them are advertising and promotion.
I can understand that some of them are due to work needs and I have no choice but to post them. However, WeChat now has a circle of friends function, which allows you to open or block content in a certain circle of friends for certain people or groups.
Therefore, if you add female resources, or there is a girl you want to pursue, if you want to post advertisements in your circle of friends, then you should block them and don’t let girls see them all in your circle of friends. advertise.
3. Wrong status display
Some buddies will post some of their complaints, decadence, and negative energy in the circle of friends without paying attention. I can understand that you are Wanting to vent one's emotions is an act of venting without any malice.
But this is very wrong. Maybe she was in a good mood at first, but after seeing the contents of your circle of friends, she suddenly felt full of negative energy. Naturally, the girl will not be very interested in you. .
The feeling we bring to girls should be a feeling of "positivity, sunshine, and positive energy", so that they are attractive.
If you have these problems, then quickly sort out your circle of friends. Don’t make such low-level mistakes, which will reduce your own attractiveness and make the resources you get ignore you!
After talking about the three comparisonsAfter typical error cases, let’s teach brothers how to create correct content in their circle of friends.
2. The correct way to post on Moments
1. Frequency of posting on Moments
It is also very important to maintain a certain frequency of "face brushing" in the circle of friends to continuously deepen your impression in the minds of girls.
However, if you post to 5 or 6 Moments a day, on the one hand, others will think that you are very idle and have nothing to do. On the other hand, girls will also develop "aesthetic fatigue" towards you, so, A relatively moderate frequency is very important!
My suggestion is:
It is very appropriate to post to a circle of friends once a week or so. Girls will not forget you, nor will they feel You are bored every day.
If a sense of security and presence is more about making girls trust you and become familiar with you, then a sense of high-end is the key to attracting girls.
The "senior" here is the same as the "excellent boy" just mentioned, which refers to the comprehensive evaluation score of a person's temperament, experience, taste, personality, interests and hobbies, etc.
2. The circle of friends should achieve "both yin and yang"
What is "both yin and yang"?< /p>
Many people’s friend circles contain text, pictures, music, or have a complete range of themed content, including food, beautiful scenery, experiences, life insights, work status, relatives and friends, leisure exercises, etc..
In fact, many brothers can do this. By doing this, you are very close to "advanced", but you can only be said to be an entry-level person.
Because these are just "yang" and there is no "both yin and yang". In other words, they are less consistent and not perfect enough!
Just like most players who are just getting started. Likewise, you know how to post beautiful things, and you also know how to control a certain frequency. This is of course a good thing, but after passing the initial stage, the more advanced stage is to demonstrate consistency, which can only be achieved through the "yin and yang" technique.
The so-called "balancing of yin and yang" means that if people's beautiful and positive emotions and states are defined as "yang", then the other side of darkness is "yin".
Many newbies only know about posting positive content in Moments, but never negative content. People are inherently happy and depressed. If a person is consistent enough, he should make others accept your depressed state as well.
Of course, you should pay attention when posting. When negative content is expressed, it is especially easy to turn into complaints, blame, criticism, etc. shapestate.
For example, if you say your pet dog is sick, you should say "The dog is sick and can't be happy", saying that the illness has caused you to feel depressed; instead of "Oh my god" It’s so unfair. Why are other people’s dogs doing fine? If the doctor can’t cure this, it’s simply incompetent!”
There is a world of difference between these two forms. The first one is Showing your negative side will make you more consistent and real, allowing girls to understand you better; and the second way is to complain, spreading negative emotions, and letting girls see you will have a bad impact on you.
Moreover, this method is actually a technique commonly used by women to "screen out spare tires"
In addition, we often see girls posting on Moments, such as the content of girls' hairpins It's "I'm so hungry, but I don't want to eat", and then it's accompanied by a picture of an unhappy expression.
At this time, what will many of the "spare tires" around girls do for the first time? They will go up and ask her. Why don't you eat, you will go up and care about her, and you will pay more attention to her!
Why?
Because this girl shows her vulnerability and low side, and those who are interested in this girl Boys, because they "like" her, can't help but care about her and make her happy.
Then girls can use it, and so can we boys. We can also use it occasionally. Sometimes it will have the effect of causing some chemical reactions in girls who are potentially interested in you, such as "the tone becomes Gentle"
However, there should be more "yang" than "yin". After all, men are masculine and sunny. Of course, the reason why I mention this is to improve the brothers’ circle of friends and make them more consistent, thereby attracting girls!
