If a boy likes a girl, he will chase her, but a girl will generally not agree easily (except when the girl also likes the boy at the same time). She will spend some time and use some careful thinking to examine whether the boy is suitable for being a boy. friend. How long does it take for a girl to test a boy before agreeing to be together? How should boys respond to the test of girls?
1. Check how favorably a girl likes you
If a girl likes a boy, she likes him more If a boy is a boy, then he will end the investigation period and be with him soon; on the contrary, if a girl doesn't like the boy very much, she will find that he is full of problems, and the relationship will not be confirmed for a long time, and it will end in the end. . There is also a situation where a girl treats a boy as a backup, and never agrees to the boy's pursuit, but always hangs on you and gives you hope. In this case, the evaluation period is too long, and the success rate is uncertain.
Dandan: I met a girl on a blind date and I liked her very much, and we had a good conversation, but suddenly one day she said that my family was not well-off and we were not suitable to be together, so that was it. I really liked this girl and was reluctant to let her go, but I couldn't help it because my family situation was like this, but I didn't delete her. I just said that even if we couldn't be lovers, we could still be friends, and we chatted as friends. We were having a good conversation that night, but suddenly he said he wouldn't test me anymore. I was confused as to what he meant. At that time, I felt mixed, happy and happy, but thinking about it before going to bed, I was a little annoyed. That’s why I didn’t believe it. But then I thought about it and it was right. People want to know whether you really like her and feel at ease, so I let it go. However, the relationship quickly heated up and developed into a stage, from understanding the status of liking to acquiescing to the boyfriend and girlfriend. state.
2. Look at girls’ personalities
How long girls usually check boys depends on each person. Girls’ personalities and so on. For example, a girl who is straightforward, carefree, and confident will test a boy for a shorter period of time, and they will be together if she likes him. But for girls who are relatively sensitive to low self-esteem and insecure, they may take a longer time to observe boys, because they have low self-esteem, have too many insecurities, and are afraid of being hurt, so they will spend a longer time observing boys. Check whether the two of you are a good fit.
3. Look at your attractiveness
We always talk about chasing girls, so why should other girls Promise? Of course you have to have something that attracts girls. Chasing girls is actually a process of constantly improving your attraction to girls. As for you taking the wrong path or going astray, there will be no results no matter how hard you try. I suggest you take a step back first, observe the basic situation of girls, understand how to increase your attractiveness, and at the same time let go of girls’ wariness towards you and changeYou, make yourself better, let girls see your strengths and highlights, let her slowly admire you, let her approach you involuntarily, and then you can find opportunities to take advantage of her, occupy her heart, and turn her into a passive person. Wouldn't it be nice to take the initiative?
Actually, it’s not that girls are testing boys, but that girls are hesitant about the uncertainty of such a relationship. This is due to the characteristics of today’s society (men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person). Lang). So boys, don’t think that girls are difficult to pursue. Girls respect you by carefully considering your relationship. Of course, if you find that in the process of chasing a girl, it is only your own unilateral contribution, and the girl makes all kinds of unreasonable troubles, and does not know how to repent after saying it, letting go at the right time is also a blessing to each other.
