In the process of getting along with men and women, we are prone to encounter problems of this kind. It may be that it is too sticky and easily bored, or it may be that it is too cold and makes people feel that the relationship is not deep. Anyway, no matter what, two people will feel that they are getting along. There are big problems. So what is the best state for men and women to get along?
1. Maintain a sense of mystery
When men and women first get along, they attract each other because of the sense of mystery. Your sense of mystery can attract the other person to constantly think of ways to explore, so it is best to maintain a certain sense of mystery when men and women get along. As for how to maintain it, you can let the other person see the new you, for example, learn something that you didn't know before. Know the things you know, and then show them cleverly to make the other person feel that they have not seen all of you, then they will continue to explore and keep things fresh.
2. Learn to create surprises
Even men and women who have been together for a long time must learn to create surprises . Creating surprises can be through occasional sweet words or occasionally giving gifts to each other. Even if it is not a holiday or anniversary, you can still buy gifts for the other person. If it is not a holiday, it can give you more surprises. Isn’t this what is needed in a dull life? A surprise?
3. Learn to flirt
Flirting is not only about words, but also about actions. For example, when he wants something, you still welcome him, and when he plays games, you tease him from time to time. Take a look, or dress yourself up to give him a "special surprise". Emotion is an essential part of the relationship between men and women.
4. Learn to be independent
In fact, the most taboo thing for a woman to get along with is losing herself. When she is in love, it is like Have something to rely on. Especially women, when men and women get along, they must be independent and must not be overly dependent. Even if your boyfriend is away, it’s great to do something interesting. If you neglect your friends, go shopping quickly. If you neglect your family, spend more time with them. If you want to eat, try to study recipes by yourself, arrange flowers, do yoga, draw, and read books. So many accomplishments. Physical and mental matters are also a way to improve yourself, which will make the other person love you more and more. Same for boys.
5. Try to make the other person rely on you
If a man and a woman want to get along for a long time, they must tolerate and understand each other and rely on each other, otherwise everyone can easily leave. Therefore, on the premise of getting along with each other, you must also learn to make the other party rely on you. For example: all my boyfriend’s personal information, all websites that need to be registered, all documents, and everything he needs to do are all here with me. As long as he wants to do this, he can only come to me. Doing something for others is also a way to be needed. Do you understand?
6. BlandIt is inevitable
No matter how sweet and passionate the relationship between a man and a woman is at the beginning, the relationship will become dull in the end. This is inevitable, don't be too entangled. It's not that the other person is tired of you, it's just that they are used to your existence. You are already in their life, so don't be too entangled.
