Although girls all like the feeling of being teased, some behaviors may make her find it annoying. For example, you may not be good-looking, but you imitate the domineering CEO in an idol drama, or you may not speak well, but you sing love songs to her. Do you know what behaviors girls hate most about boys?
1. No opinion
When dating a girl they like, many boys always listen to the girl's opinions and do whatever she asks you to do. These boys think that by doing this they can win the girl's favor. As long as I agree with her, she will feel comfortable and happy. Of course you keep following her, of course she is happy, and maybe she thinks you are friendly. But in her opinion, this is the end of your relationship.
Because girls prefer boys who are insightful when speaking, rather than the kind of guy who only agrees with her, agrees with her, and meets all their requirements all day long. It's not wrong for you to like her, accommodate her, and be nice to her, but she will think that this boy is very opinionated and incompetent.
2. Insincerity
In the era of fast love, this has become a common problem among many boys. No matter what channel he met a girl through, when a boy sees a girl, he subconsciously wants to confess his love to her. Why do he do this? There are two reasons: because he likes her and wants her to know, and he subconsciously thinks that the other party will also like him after confessing his love. . Secondly, they think that if they don’t seize the opportunity to express their love, the other person will be snatched away by others.
It’s ridiculous to worry about gains and losses. This girl is not yours in the first place, so why should you worry about losing her? The consequence of doing this is to be rejected, because confession does not necessarily win the girl. Girls are attracted. If you want to attract girls, you must improve yourself and increase your attractiveness.
3. Information bombing
After some boys get a girl’s WeChat account, they keep sending her messages Send messages and ask her what she is doing, has she eaten, has she slept? I greet her every day. Otherwise, you just keep waiting in the circle of friends. Once it appears, you will like it and leave enthusiastic comments: Where are you playing? Who are you with? Why don't you call me?
If she doesn't reply to the message, Even after you sent several messages and asked the other party why they didn’t reply, I saw you posting on Moments. Are you so rude? Are all you beauties so aloof?
There is even a category After getting the girl's phone number, he called her frantically. If you call once or twice, it can be understood that the other party may not have heard you, but if you call frantically for the third or fourth time and still don't answer, then it means that you really don't want to answer your call.
4. Stalking and beating
Many boys always feel that if they are thicker-skinned, they will definitely be able to catch up with girls. But they don't understand the truth. Only when girls don't hate you or are disgusted with you can you have a chance to do this.
If a girl has made it clear that she doesn’t like you, she will take a detour when she sees you, for fear that others will know your acquaintance, or tell you directly: You If she is too short, too ugly, or too poor, that is already a very responsible rejection of you. Don't always think that she is being reserved. If a girl is already disgusted with you, don't shamelessly pester her. That's not flirting, that's harassment.
When pursuing a girl, don’t pursue her on the premise that the other party will like you, but think about how to make the girl like you. Many boys always fall into the misunderstanding of narcissism, causing girls to dislike themselves. Therefore, we cannot become one of the above types of people, otherwise we can only live alone.
