Girls are emotional creatures and are easily manipulated by their emotions. It is easy for their mood to be affected by trivial things. So if you make your girlfriend angry, how do you make her happy? Here are 3 ways to make her smile.
1. Emotional consistency method
If a girl is angry because of something at work or in life, then Don't try to coax a girl with the idea of ????helping her solve her problem. This will only make her feel that you don't understand her and make her more irritated. For example:
Girl: I'm really annoyed today. The boss gave me an extra job and asked me to edit some videos from the company.
Boy: Oh, it’s very simple to edit videos. Do you want me to do it for you? I’m a thief
Girl:…..
In the above chat, the boy thought that if he took the initiative to help the girl solve the problem, he would win the other girl’s favor. However, this approach only temporarily helped the girl solve the problem, but it did not If you take care of girls' emotions, you will only get a "good guy card", which will not attract girls.
The correct approach is to always be consistent with the girl’s emotions, or even stronger than her emotions. At this time, don’t worry about who is right or wrong, or how to solve the matter. You should be better than She was even more angry, such as:
"Oh my god, how could your boss do this?"
"How could your boss do this? That's terrible!"
"Your boss treats you too badly, unscrupulous boss!"
It may not be ideal for you to comfort a girl when she is in a bad mood, but you can express your understanding and empathy for the girl's negative emotions. You will feel that you understand her. This method will make it easier to guide a girl's emotions and win her favor.
2. Guided Conversation Method
When a girl takes the initiative to complain to you, don’t return it at this time. Start coaxing without understanding the situation, for example:
Girl: I am really tired recently
Boy: You must not have slept well, go to bed early every day, before going to bed Drinking a glass of milk will help you sleep
Girls: Oh
Boys: Be sure to remember to drink milk
In the above chat, the girls just said one sentence When he is very tired, the boy can't wait to express his sincerity. This way exposes his need for the girl and will only become her "licking dog".
The correct approach is to guide girls to talk about unhappy things, and we just need to play the role of good listeners. For example:
Are you too tired from working overtime?
Did you fail in the exam?
What’s wrong, what happened, can you tell me?Say
When a girl complains to you, she doesn’t necessarily want you to help her solve the problem. She may just want someone to listen to her. At the same time, in the process of listening, you can also understand the reasons why girls are unhappy. Next, you can appropriately expose yourself, talk about your own similar experiences, and draw your relationship closer. For example
When I just graduated and went to work in the company, I was a newbie. I didn’t understand many things and was under a lot of pressure. During that time, I was in a bad mood and often suffered from insomnia.
I got through that period and gradually got better. I also figured out that it was no big deal. I just worked hard to do what I should do, and everything will get better slowly. .
3. How to bring out the scene
Many boys will try to persuade girls when they coax girls. , telling her a lot of truths, thinking that the female partner will definitely understand his good intentions, but this approach will make the girl more annoyed and in a worse mood. For example:
Girls: I’m really tired from working overtime recently
Boys: Yes, classes are very tiring
Girls:…..
Boys: Although working overtime is tiring, we are still young, so we just have to persevere.
In the above chat, the boy encouraged the girl, asked her to persist, and tried to persuade the girl. This approach will make the girl think that you like to preach and will create a sense of distance from the girl.
The correct approach is to show understanding and then use the scene to bring the girl out of the current negative emotional scene into a positive emotional scene.
For example
Girl: I’m really tired from working overtime recently
Boy: Why is your company so abusive to its employees? Your boss is really terrible! (Synchronized emotions )
Girl: Yes
Boy: Then you have worked really hard (comforting the girl). By the way, I recently discovered a delicious drink shop. When you are not busy, let’s go have a cup of milk tea together (scene brought out)
When girls complain to you, you know when girls complain by listening. The reason is that you are tired from working overtime. You expressed your understanding through appropriate self-exposure and eased the girl's mood. Next, you can bring the girl out of her current negative emotions by describing a relaxing and happy scene to her. The girl's mind immediately switched to the scene of milk tea, and she forgot about her unhappiness just now.
