In fact, if you observe carefully, you will find that good-looking people cannot become bad-looking people. Bad-looking people are generally the kind of people who are not good-looking, regardless of gender. Do you know why this is?

Why are so many people ugly and scumbag?

1. People’s psychological states are different

In today’s society of appearance, those who are good-looking and those who are not good-looking are basically two kinds of creatures. What is the main difference between the two? Mental state!

For example, good-looking people have always been praised and held up since childhood, and there is no shortage of admiring glances from the opposite sex around them. People have already seen any clumsy or clever tricks to seduce people. If you have a good attitude, your tolerance will be relatively stronger. For example, you will be more polite, more patient, and less likely to have extreme impulsive emotions. It is more gentle and peaceful, with less violent outbursts. For example, striking up a conversation with a beautiful woman will basically be successful.

On the contrary, people with average looks, because they have not experienced so many initiatives from the opposite sex towards them, are prone to lack and jealousy. Psychology, when this kind of psychology is not properly guided, it is easy to produce some abnormal thoughts and actions, just like the famous sentence: People are ugly and do mischief. The specific manifestations are that they have a more impatient personality, are too ambitious, are too meticulous, and are difficult to integrate. team. Emotionally it is easy to hold grudges against people you like but don't like you, thereby hurting others and yourself.

People's psychological state is just like people's beauty and ugliness. When you move closer to beauty, your world will be gentler. In this regard, I just want to say that when you are impatient or even complaining about the person you like, instead of being restless and unable to sleep well, the better way is to stay gentle like those good-looking people. and a positive attitude.

It doesn’t matter if a person is good-looking because of his appearance. What’s great is that he has an aura of appearance because of his good looks. Maybe your aura will be invisibly improved because of your changes. The psychological state and self-perception caused by social evaluation.

2. If you look good, don’t bother getting rid of your scum.

The above is an explanation from the psychological framework of human nature and is not universal. The more people lack something, the more they long for it. When a person lacks nothing, his desires are peaceful and the person is gentle.

Good-looking people are less likely to feel insecure, even if they have been hurt before. Let me tell you a fact: the more beautiful you are, the less scumbag you are, and the more ordinary girls are, the less scumbag you are. People who have experienced it will definitely agree with my point of view, and there must be a scumbag in your circle of friends. This will be of great help to your growth. I will tell you why below.

Good-looking girls have no shortage of boys chasing them since childhood, so they don’t care whether they are friends or not, because they already have the feeling of being surrounded by stars, and their desire to gain a sense of conquest will eventually Very low, so beauties can’tI disdain being a scumbag because it will lower my social evaluation.

However, the typical experience of ordinary girls is that the duller the experience, the more terrifying the outbreak, because there are fewer people of the opposite sex pursuing them. Once there is a boy pursuing them, , you will enjoy this feeling very much, deliberately not replying to chat, neither rejecting nor accepting your kindness, enjoying the fun of always being in a high position in the game, and eventually choosing a boy who makes you most satisfied to succeed in the position. .

Scumbag girls are particularly suitable as friends because they are well-informed and know more than the average girl, especially the characteristics of different men.

As long as you let them realize that you are not their fish or their food, it will definitely help you. Over time, your thinking framework will make a qualitative leap. Don’t ask me how I know. Yes, anyway, just don’t do the reverse operation in the end.