When boys who have no love experience get along with girls, they may appear very dull and incomprehensible. Love experience is accumulated through love experience, which becomes an endless cycle. As a result, boys who have no love experience are chasing girls more and more.
In order to help everyone solve this problem, the editor below will share some tips on chasing girls with boys who have little love experience.
1. Establish a sense of comfort
Just getting to know a girl is a stage of mutual understanding. This period is the most The important thing is to establish a sense of comfort and use charm to establish an initial attraction to girls.
When many boys are pursuing girls, they will just keep asking questions in the early stage of acquaintance, "Where are you from", "How old are you", "What do you do"... If you want to quickly find common topics with girls, This strong way of seeking common ground will only make girls cold or even disgusted with you.
It’s not that you can’t ask girls questions, but you should choose to ask questions at the right time. Don’t look for topics with too much purpose when chatting. You can try to turn questions into declarative sentences and use cold reading Ways to turn on girls, listen carefully and praise her appropriately, and secondly, show your value to girls. Value includes: humor, taste, wide social circle, broad knowledge, etc.
Example:
“Where are you from?” replaced by a declarative sentence is “You are a southern girl, right?”
“How old are you?” replaced by a declarative sentence is “ I guess your age should be around 23”
2. Strengthen communication
Establish comfort with girls After you have feelings, you need to strengthen daily interaction and communication with girls, and complete the transformation from friends to lovers through in-depth understanding. At this stage, you need to understand what girls like, need, hate, etc., and also let the other party know your personality characteristics, daily preferences, etc., and deepen each other's impression in each other's mind through communication.
This is how the sense of intimacy and trust gradually accumulates. In this process, you and girls should listen more and share more, and guide the chat topic to emotions, and the topic will gradually deepen from superficial to ambiguous and ambiguous. It is the most beautiful time in love. As long as you break through this layer of window paper, you can enter into love.
When a girl’s favorability towards you reaches a certain level, she should try to invite the girl out on a date. After all, dating is the best way to upgrade the relationship, and it is also a prelude to confirming the relationship.
3. Improve yourself
Love is a good way to adjust life. Emotions can bring happiness to people. Sweet psychological experience, on the road to chasing the perfect lover, don’t let love becomeRegardless of the shackles that prevent you from moving forward, you must work hard to grow and improve yourself at all times, and become a charming man of equal value to the other person.
As the saying goes, "Planting sycamore trees will attract phoenixes." How to improve your charming image? On the one hand, improve your appearance and clothing; on the other hand, read more, socialize more, exercise more, etc. Broaden your horizons; and finally improve your love and emotional intelligence through continuous learning.