Men should be upright and upright, but when facing the girl they like, many boys immediately change from a normal man to a licking dog. They have no bottom line and kneel and lick without dignity, trying to pass such a Way to chase the opponent. Next, we will analyze the psychology of these boys and tell you how to stop being a bitch when you like someone and chase her standing!

1. Whippet: Silently sinking in the deep sea

Reasons for becoming a dog licker: Only doing things but not talking, the girl does not know her intentions, and she licks silently and restrainedly .

Speaking of Whippets, one of the major characteristics is that they like to be quiet. To what extent does a Whippet like to be quiet? Not only does he not like to bark much, he even feels confused and at a loss in a noisy environment.

Some brothers are like whippets. They are very loyal to their feelings and do a lot for girls, but they just don’t like to talk about it. To put it bluntly, there is a barrier to communication.

One way of love that I have always advocated is: communication.

What is communication? It is a bridge that builds relationships. The essence of what we often call communication and adaptation is to learn to communicate and speak. In the early stage of contact, you have no common experience that can support your relationship to get closer step by step. The most important thing at this time is communication.

But having said that, everyone can talk, but why do some brothers just can’t speak? Because they don’t have enough emotional intelligence and knowledge to support this kind of communication. At the same time, they will feel pressure and nervous to communicate with girls.

This kind of non-communication is actually a manifestation of avoidance. Therefore, there are two key points to solve this communication problem: 1. Confidence 2. Knowledge.

Confidence: In fact, this is not self-confidence in our traditional sense, but to overcome the fear of position. Let's think about it carefully, what are we worried about before communicating with girls? We are afraid that the topic is too old and that it will cause resentment. And why aren’t veteran clearers afraid of this? Because they have experience and know that girls are not that scary. They are all cute and easy to talk to. If you understand this, you will naturally become more confident.

Knowledge: Confidence determines your motivation to chat with girls, and knowledge determines the frequency of communication between you and girls. Remember, no one will say no to someone who is fun to talk to. If your life experience is really not very colorful, then read more.

2. Golden Retriever: Always the Good Mr.

Reasons for becoming a dog licker: licking promotion without a bottom line The asymmetry in the relationship between the two parties.

What impression does Golden Retriever leave on us? He is a warm man, always smiling and has a good temper.

As a dog, he is very popular, but as a man, he is really weak.

In fact, as long as you carefully observe the warm men around you, you will find two extremes: either you will have continuous love affairs, or you will become a super licking dog. Unfortunately, the second type is the majority.

What is the reason?

No girl will like a boy without a frame.

What is the framework? It is the composite product of your character, personality, temperament, and temperament. And some brothers only have a weak character. They have no bottom line and no dignity, and they only lick blindly. Just do whatever he wants, no one will care about his feelings, including himself.

And the most common of all dog licking types is the golden retriever.

The most important thing to solve this puzzle is to establish an ordinary person's personality, so that the other party feels that you are an ordinary person, not just a licker. You can be a warm man, but there is a limit to how warm you can be. You can meet her needs, but you have to ask for corresponding rewards.

In a word: Make your efforts valuable and let her understand that you have a warm character that is hardworking and hardworking, but you also have sharp teeth that can crush her hand bones.

Some brothers may have questions: Shouldn’t we make girls feel that we are special? Why do you want us to be ordinary people.

Brother, it would be nice to be an ordinary person with flesh and blood and real feelings. There are many people who find it difficult to be an ordinary person.

3. Teddy: The sense of need is completely exposed

Reasons for becoming a dog licker: The handle is If you have people, you have to follow people.

When talking about Teddy, three big words come to mind: Tai Ri Tian.

That’s right, they are either in the process or on the way to something. The desire is very obvious, no other dogs can see or smell it at all, just pick up the guy and get on it.

Some brothers, like Teddy, go straight to the topic and expose their needs very thoroughly.

But in a relationship, exposing your need is the stupidest thing to do.

What is the sense of need we often talk about? It means that the girl knows that you are here for her and you are greedy for her body. What does this sense of need bring? It brings nothing. It can only expose your availability. The girl will understand that you are too easy to get, so easy that when she hooks her finger, you will rush over madly to meet all her demands.

This is really not a good thing.

The most critical point to solve this problem is to conceal the demand and reduce the availability. To operate, you can use the push-pull method. First, treat the relationship coldly, and then feel that your possibility has been reduced, and then reappear in her life.

You can also add content to your personality in other ways to make your personality more multifaceted.Showing her that she can't tell what kind of person you are can also reduce your availability.

4. Jingba: No one can remember it

Reason for becoming a dog licker: lack of key attractive charm.

As a palace dog in ancient China, the Pekingese was once the representative dog breed in China. But today, can we still see Pekingese dogs when we walk dogs in the community?

Pekingese dogs are good at both movement and quiet. They are strong, disease-resistant, and easy to train. They are obviously private dogs in the city. Standard specimens, but why do they appear less and less frequently?

Everything is average, but nothing is outstanding.

The same is true for some brothers. They have no obvious shortcomings, but they also have no obvious strengths. They belong to a particularly ordinary category. This kind of hot spot that is average in all aspects represents a lack of attraction to girls, and it is easy for girls to feel dissatisfied with lovers over friendship, and gradually become a licking dog when love is not available again and again.

Of course, the method of cracking a brother with this character is also the best among all types. Just reshape your personal charm.