Many boys think that girls like handsome guys. Although this is true, it does not mean that girls only like handsome guys. Below, the editor will teach you some techniques and tell you how to make girls like boys who are not handsome.
1. Strong insensitivity
Many boys just don’t have enough insensitivity. Girls Occasionally when he didn't reply enthusiastically enough, he started to think about it, wondering if the girl didn't like him. To put it bluntly, I have too much self-esteem.
Of course, we can’t say that you should lick and you can’t have self-esteem, but if you don’t have the determination to never give up until you achieve your goal, don’t complain.
If you only try a little bit and you are impressed by a little effort, then failure is inevitable.
Having said so much, how can a sensitive person improve his insensitivity?
It is not that easy to change a sensitive nature, but what about Brother Chen? , summarized a formula for everyone: be loyal to your heart + consider the other person + "don't attribute other people's emotions to yourself."
Before chasing girls, first think about whether you are willing to do those things and whether they can make you happy.
After thinking about it clearly, don’t regret it, and don’t question yourself because of other people’s opinions.
Of course, you also have to think about the other person. Will your choice hurt the other person? If not, then don’t give up easily.
Finally, when you have achieved the first two points, you can tell yourself "Don't attribute other people's emotions to yourself." Because everyone's emotions are born in their own hearts and should be their own responsibility.
2. Chic and unrestrained
Speaking of being chic in relationships, those who can do it are really incredible. underestimate.
What’s wrong with not being handsome? If you really like her, you will feel regretful if you miss her like this, then you should pursue her.
The worst thing you can do is to be rejected, but at least you gave yourself the opportunity to get close to her and get to know her, and you felt happy in your heart.
You like her, you pursue her, you do what you want to do, that’s enough.
As for whether she agrees to you or not, that is her business.
So what if we don’t agree, we will still live our own lives, eat and drink as we should, and don’t take anything to heart.
Girls will never dare to treat such a boy as a bitch, because they can also see that you have your own bottom line, are independent and confident, and isn’t this a charm?
3. Charm
To say that this boy is not only good-looking but also rich., and what else can attract and retain true people the most? It must be about character.
Of course, everyone’s personality is different, and we cannot arbitrarily determine what is good and what is bad.
But boys who can attract beautiful girls must have unique character charm.
I believe that everyone has a few friends around them. They are not rich or powerful people, but they make people feel very comfortable and make you like to get along with them.
This feeling is hard to explain. It may be generous and tolerant, gentle and rational, or cheerful and free-spirited.
Some people, after getting along with them for a long time, you feel like, eh, I have become more optimistic and sunny.
With some people, you will slowly feel that you are becoming more and more empty and degenerate when you are with them.
So, the most essential issue is that we have to improve ourselves and make ourselves better and better, so that equally good girls will be willing to get close to us.
