Why do you need sweet words when chasing girls? But because many boys are stupid, even if they have prepared these sweet words, they don’t know how to express them. Naturally, it is difficult to get the favor of girls and to chase girls. Are those stupid boys really doomed to live a lonely life?
Of course not. Below, the editor will teach you some techniques to make girls fall in love with you.
1. Avoid making mistakes when chatting
Many boys who are stupid have not yet established any familiarity with a girl when they first met her. When I feel attracted to someone, I just try to build attraction, and then because I don’t know how to chat, I am disliked by the girl, or even treated coldly.
Since we are stupid, when we first meet a girl, what we have to do when chatting is to try to avoid making mistakes, instead of hoping to attract girls and make girls interested through unskilled chatting. This is A point that many people tend to overlook.
After all, only if the girl doesn’t hate you can the chat continue.
How should a stupid boy avoid making mistakes when chatting with girls?
1. Don’t ask girls questions continuously
Many boys just add girls. When I'm a good friend, I can't help but ask questions, hoping to get to know the girl quickly. Although I can't say that asking questions is wrong, because I am stupid and don't have certain skills, I keep asking questions, and finally give the girl a feeling of being interrogated. You must know that the question itself is relatively monotonous and boring, and it is difficult to arouse girls' emotions. It makes people feel boring and uninteresting, and it is difficult to continue chatting.
2. Don’t show your value too much or too early
In front of the girl we like, we will inevitably have the urge to express ourselves. This is nature, but if If you don't have a good sense of proportion, don't have certain skills, and show your high value to girls too much or too early, then girls will only think that you are showing off. Therefore, as a boy with a stupid mouth, you must not show your value too much or prematurely.
2. What should we talk about when a stupid guy chases a girl?
Chatting is always about a stupid guy chasing a girl. A stumbling block on the road. .
In fact, chatting, like falling in love, requires both parties to maintain it. So if you only rely on your stupid mouth, it is likely that the chat will turn into a one-man show, like a speech, without any substantive interaction. Not only is it difficult to bring emotional experience to girls, but it also makes the entire chat boring and boring.
So, since we are stupid and since we don’t know how to sweet talk girls to make them happy, then we can only make girls interested in you and interested in chatting with you.
After all, only when a girl is interested in you will she be interested in you.Only when you are interested in chatting will the chat be interactive, and will you not make girls annoying by chatting. Of course, in the early stages of acquaintance, girls will not show affection for someone easily, so they need to go through certain skills.
3. How to make girls interested
When you have a certain degree of familiarity with girls, let them The key to generating interest is attraction.
Money and looks are the most basic attractions for men, but not everyone is rich and handsome. Therefore, as a stupid boy who wants to make girls interested, we can do The most important thing is: do your best under the conditions that you can do!
For example, in terms of appearance, try to dress yourself as clean and fresh as possible, so as not to make a girl look disgusted when you meet her.
Regarding money, it is a relatively sensitive topic, and it is also a topic that surrounds people's lives. After all, money determines the quality of our lives.
For girls, they also hope to live a prosperous life, find a rich husband, and have no worries about food and clothing. However, many people regard having no worries about food and clothing as a life like a "rich man" .
Especially when I see a girl marrying into a wealthy family, I don’t believe it is true love and instead accuses her of worshiping money. In fact, it reveals that men The feeling of powerlessness when chasing a woman.
What girls want to "have no worries about food and clothing" is a monthly income of one million? A monthly income of tens of millions? Or even more?
None of these are true, because different girls have different views on "having no worries about food and clothing". The definition of "worry" is different!
A girl who earns over 10,000 yuan a month must have a mate selection standard of over 10,000 yuan;
A girl who earns 5,000 yuan a month, her The standard for choosing a spouse must be more than 5,000 yuan;
A girl who earns 3,000 yuan a month must have a standard for choosing a spouse of more than 3,000 yuan;
Most girls, for their significant other, The requirements must match or be higher than your own economic value.
Of course, there will be those who want to marry into a rich family. For such a person, if he knows what she is thinking, why would he jump into it.
Therefore, it is still necessary to pursue the right person. After all, only if you are the right person will you not be dissatisfied with girls or have girls look down on you.
