Many girls don’t put much thought into adding WeChat. Recently, they added WeChat, but it didn’t leave much of an impression on the girls. The subsequent chat interactions couldn’t keep up. Even if they take the initiative to chat with girls, girls tend to ignore them. . Today, Senior Xiaoyu will share with you how to introduce yourself when adding WeChat for the first time? Make an impression on girls.

1. Introduce yourself according to the relationship

If a boy wants to be friends with a girl, he must be polite first. This is the most important thing. Then be easy-going and tell him that you added the girl on WeChat. What are you doing? What are the inextricable connections (common points) between you? Keep it simple and don't let girls think you are very purposeful. Wait for the girl’s home to reply before proceeding to the next step. If the girl is busy and does not respond, don’t keep sending messages, such as:

Hello, I It’s xxx. We are still high school alumni. It’s just that I passed the exam in another place and then stayed and worked. I heard from an old classmate that you also came to this city. It’s a coincidence that this city is quite popular. If nothing happens in the future, please contact me. Yeah, you can go play together.

This way of self-introduction can not only show that your connection with her will not make people feel strange, but also show your general situation and express your thoughts. Then, after waiting for the other party to respond, you can infer the girl's personality based on her reaction and continue the conversation. For example, if the girl responds with a more positive attitude, you can further indicate,

I don't know if you are busy at work. I'm busy, let's make an appointment for dinner when we have time~

Well, this is just an example. Others should be explained based on the situation. First, let's briefly explain it tentatively, based on your relationship with the girl. Introduce yourself.

2. Clear needs to introduce yourself

Generally speaking, boys and girls on WeChat have a certain purpose: What do you want to do? ? Are you trying to tease girls? Or just for work?

If you want to tease a girl, it’s very simple. Tell me how you added the girl, and then express that you are interested in her and want to get to know her, for example:

"Hello! I have met you twice before and thought you were very good-looking, so I really wanted to get to know you, so I asked my friends about your WeChat account. It was a bit abrupt, haha, but I really want to get to know you blabla.. ."

Then you can start chatting a few words, such as how you noticed the other person, let out just the right amount of rainbow farts, and if the other person is more easy-going, you can also say by the way: "Come out together when we have a chance. "Let's play" or "I'll treat you to dinner/milk tea when I get the chance", lay the groundwork, and act quickly when the opportunity comes.

There is nothing to worry about. Communication should be direct and sincere. Express your feelings sincerely. There is nothing embarrassing. whoDon't like to be appreciated and noticed?

Take a step back and say, even if a girl gives you a cold face and doesn’t reply, it’s okay. At least you know how they treat you, and you can move forward or back later. ..

If there is a need for work...

Isn’t it simpler, who am I, what do I want you to do, what do I need you to do...

3. Understand girls’ interests and introduce yourself

Girls are very enthusiastic about boys they are interested in, so you might as well put yourself in the girl’s perspective first and understand what kind of boys she would like. Interests (you can ask from the girl’s circle of friends or people she knows well)? For example:

Talented (Ivy League, Tsinghua University, Peking University, what competitions and prizes have you won)

Has a title (blogger with millions of fans, professor at such-and-such university, lead singer of such-and-such unknown band, mid-laner of such-and-such unknown team)

Handsome (can watch it a hundred times a day without getting tired of it)< /p>

Rich experience (personal bragging ability)

Have financial strength (low-key and implicit to let people dig deeper)

If you don’t have the characteristics that girls are interested in, then If you want to leave an impression on her, you may need to accumulate time and effort.

This is the first time you add a WeChat opening statement to introduce yourself to everyone. I hope boys will put more thought into it so that girls can remember you.