Today, the topic of how to use the delayed gratification effect to chase girls may be a bit heavy, because many people nowadays say that we should have fun in time and have all the fun in life. This is not wrong, but people nowadays are just happy. Be happy, and be comforted when you are unhappy. It's like drinking milk tea or staying up late, what would you choose?
How to use the delayed gratification effect to chase girls?
1. Don’t be anxious when chasing girls
Some people stay up late at night, drink the most expensive health care products, apply the most expensive facial masks, and apply the most expensive Eye cream, in fact, such behavior and psychology will affect your judgment and approach in other things. For example, you might be chasing a girl, right? You may think, oh, there is no need to wait so long, and then you want to confess your love as soon as you meet each other, and force the other person to be your partner, so what should you do?
When you are chasing a girl, you want to know what the other person is doing at all times, but you can’t follow the network cable to see, right? ? Then at this time, you want to satisfy one of your own desires, which may cause you to pester the girl. Because of this, the girl will annoy you, become distant, and become cold, and you can't stand it anymore. Then your biggest thought at the moment is Desire is to want a girl to change her mind, right? And then you want to satisfy your desire, so you lie to yourself and do things like licking dogs if it's reasonable. In the end, you can't accept the fact that a girl sends you a good guy card. Brothers who are so entangled like this can use the delayed gratification effect to restrain themselves, and girls may want you more.
2. Don’t worry about gains and losses
When chasing girls, you must restrain yourself and don’t worry about gains and losses. Some brothers and girls may not reply to your message for an hour, and he will immediately start thinking wildly, or even look at this record, did I say or do something wrong, or even fantasize about her or him being with another man? A mess.
3. Don’t focus on girls
Your focus should be on yourself. If chasing girls or falling in love is divided into 20 and 80, then improving yourself should be 80 and 80. , then spending time on girls should be two. Some brothers may say that you have become better and there is no need to chase after you, because girls will fall in love with you. In fact, for most girls, she will not take the initiative to tease a boy, but as long as you tease her even a little bit or once, her enthusiasm for you will exceed that of other boys. Because your availability feels higher, after all, you took the initiative first.
4. Don’t beautify girls too much
Maybe the girl you like is really gentle, You are kind, considerate, beautiful, generous, and sweet, but you are not bad either! Just because a girl is good doesn't mean you're rubbish, okay?? When you like a girl, if you want to truly win her love, you must be confident and good enough.
When you use the delayed gratification effect to restrain the above four points, the girl will have thoughts about you and even want to have some stories with you, because you are different from her previous suitors. You know how to kneel down and lick. At this time, you have aroused the curiosity of the girl. The girl may also confirm the relationship with you for her own desire to conquer. The most important thing is that she thinks you are different and interesting. Do you understand?
