No matter how much a boy likes a girl, he will slowly lose patience with her and give up when the girl is hot and cold. Although doing this can prevent you from being hurt by a scumbag, you may also really lose a good girl you love because of it. Because not all girls who are hot and cold are hanging on to you, she may just be reserved. In order to avoid missing out, the editor below will share with you how to deal with girls who are hot and cold?
1. Stay enthusiastic about her
Before you want to deal with a girl being hot and cold, you must first Understand the psychology of girls. If a girl knows that a boy likes her, but she doesn't know how he likes her or to what extent, and the girl will feel that she doesn't know the boy well enough, so the girl will usually observe the boy's reaction by going hot and cold. So, how do girls deal with being hot and cold? The answer is to always be warm to her. If she doesn't dislike you so much, she will slowly pass the test. If a girl is hot and cold and you are hot and cold to her, then she will definitely doubt you. Do you really like her? Because girls generally lack a sense of security and are slow to warm up, they will not easily become enthusiastic about someone. But if she decides that you are the right person, she will be very enthusiastic towards you.
2. Stay away from her
If a girl is very enthusiastic about you at the beginning and stays with you every day Chatting, etc., and then slowly stopped looking for you or looking for you again after a long time, that means that this girl may have found someone more suitable for her. If she is still chatting with you, she may still like you. I'm slow to give up on you, but I just can't bear to part with you. To put it bluntly, this kind of girl just eats from the bowl and looks at what's in the pot. If you are sure that the girl is a cheater and hangs out with other boys, it is recommended that you stay away from such a girl.
3. Be proactive
In fact, 80% of the time a girl is hot and cold towards boys is because she likes boys. Yes, because a girl's hot and cold attitude mainly depends on your boy's attitude towards girls. If a boy also likes this girl, he should be brave (not to confess, don't be too eager to express your feelings, so the girl will think that you are the kind of boy who only cares about your kidneys but not your heart, so what I mean by being brave is that if a girl is very fond of you When she is enthusiastic, interact with her more, and it is best to tease her back. When a girl is very cold to you, you can tease her, "Hey, we haven't seen you for a few days, and this is your attitude. Is there someone out there? Plus save your life." "dog head" means that the dog head in WeChat will not be embarrassing)
4. Give each other a distance
If A girl is hot and cold towards you because she doesn't like you, but she realizes that you like her, so if you want to adjust the distance, pay attention to the distance. Since you really like her, of course you can't give up, but first you have to know what she wants, otherwise she will not accept it. In addition, since we are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, we should not let the atmosphere around us be ambiguous, otherwise it will be very embarrassing.
When a girl is hot and cold, you have to use countermeasures based on what kind of girl she is. For example, some boys’ silly protection and silly persistence will make girls very happy. I'm very touched, but it depends on what type of girl you like. Since we are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, you have to pay attention to the distance, otherwise it will be difficult to get rid of the awkward atmosphere. First of all, let her feel that it suits you. You should treat her in a normal and loving way, and you should not make her feel suffocated. Also, temporary happiness does not necessarily mean forever, but a temporary impulse may miss the fate of a lifetime. If you feel that she has feelings for you and they are gradually deepening, you should seize the opportunity!
