The love triangle itself is a rather bloody thing, more like a plot that happens in a TV series. However, this does not mean that a love triangle cannot happen in reality. When encountering a love triangle, how should you make a decision? Should you continue to stick to your love, or should you give up the entanglement of three people?
Being loyal as a servant and risking your life as a master, this is morality. You can't let "should" limit you, but you must follow your inner thoughts. Even if it's a love triangle, what's wrong with sticking to what you love?
Looking at it with the right eyes and the right way, if we encounter a love triangle in our lives, we can only say that we must have encountered a certain love triangle in the process of love. , we must be very tired, and it would be better if you are two people who love each other. If you are the third person, the one who is not loved, you will definitely be very exhausted both mentally and physically.
In a love triangle, unlike ordinary love, you will always wonder if there is something about yourself that is not as good as the other person. Sometimes you may have done it perfectly, but the other half you like is not good enough. But I never noticed that you don't like you. As one of them, we cannot avoid it and can only treat it normally.
1. Treat it with a normal mentality.
In the era of free love, ordinary love is already very tiring, and you are part of the heart of the love triangle. If you are not the one being loved, you will definitely be very tired. But you still have to treat it with a normal attitude. Maybe you are not as good as that person, not as handsome as him, and not as good as him. All we can do is to improve ourselves and give our best to the other half of our dreams. Even if you are a spare tire. Everyone always says it’s not good to be a spare tire, and it’s even worse to be the spare tire in a love triangle. Treat the love triangle correctly and treat it with a normal heart. Sometimes it's not that you don't do well, it's really about the taste. Sometimes I feel it. Love comes too.
2. Being yourself is the most important thing
In a love triangle, we have no choice but to express ourselves better, be ourselves better, and don’t care. From the perspective of others, what we love is the person we like, and he has nothing to do with our future life. In your heart, you still want the people you like to be together. It doesn't matter what others do. If you are not the one who is loved, or you have to work harder. If you work harder, maybe one day the person you love will like you, and the love between you will be sweeter and more natural. Or I hope that everyone from all over the world can become dependents and not be confused in their own love.
3. Treat the people you love as always
In the era of free love,If you're not the one being liked in a relationship, you still have to treat the person you love as you normally would. Fortunately, when he encountered difficulties, he reached out to help him and cheered him up when he was confused. As a beacon that lights his way. No matter what, what you love is the person you love. Even if she doesn't love you, sometimes giving silently is a kind of selfless greatness. Everyone says, why should we try our best to be nice to someone who doesn’t love us? But sometimes we are just like this, and we often cannot take the actions that we would think rationally. How to say, be yourself. It is enough to never forget your original intention for the people you love.
