In reality, it is rare for two people to be happy with each other. When a relationship occurs, it is usually a boy who takes the initiative and slowly turns a girl who has no feelings for him into a girl who likes him. So how do you make a girl who likes you or has no feelings for you fall in love with you?
1. Eliminate conflicts Stop losses in time
First of all, you need to know one thing, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep.
Sometimes, even if you don’t confess, your behavior betrays you. A girl is not a fool, she can still tell whether you like her or not.
When you continue to pursue a girl but find that she has no feelings at all, you must know that you really cannot attract her now.
A woman can be moved, but she will never fall in love with someone just because she is moved.
Even if you are forced to stay together, one day when the heat drops and you can no longer move her, breaking up is an inevitable result.
Moreover, when you find that someone you don’t like loves you, emotional pressure such as guilt and restraint will cause you to want to stay away from him, and everything he does has ulterior motives in your eyes. .
It seems that many people are pursuing a girl who doesn’t love them.
The methods and methods used are all putting pressure on the other party, which is to push the distance between you.
If you want to change this situation, the first thing you have to do is to stop "chasing her"!
You read that right, just stop chasing her, at least in your words and deeds Stop letting the other person think you still like her.
The purpose of this is to eliminate conflicts and contradictions between you, stop losses in time, and stabilize the relationship between you as friends again.
Don’t think that she will lose her because she knows you don’t like her anymore, because you never got her in the first place, and many things are just your self-fantasy, which only adds to your worries.
Think about why girls can talk to their friends - because there is no pressure.
What girls resist most is pressure, so the first step is to release the pressure between you and give each other a buffer.
2. Use retreat to advance and reshape attraction
Many people ignore that there is a person before falling in love. Friends stage.
Girls are slow to warm up, and the stage when we establish attraction is often in a friendship.
Just imagine when a girl you don’t like pursues you frequently and bothers you. Suddenly one day she gives up, what will happen to you?
While suddenly relaxed, there was also a little discomfort, after all, human nature is base.
At this time, you may be a little curious, why did he suddenly give up? Is it because I, Shizuka, am not sexy enough, or is it that you, fat tiger, have too high a vision?
So this stage is to retreat. To advance, reshape and attract.
You need to examine yourself to see what is the reason why you are not attracted to her.
If the appearance and temperament do not meet the other party's requirements, then improve yourself from the outside in and change your new image. "Looking ugly" is not the root cause at all.
To paraphrase a girl’s saying, there are no ugly men in the world, only lazy men. A person’s appearance depends to a greater extent on your hairstyle, clothing and temperament.
If you want someone to fall in love with you, you must first learn to love yourself. Beautiful hairstyle and clothing can even affect your overall confidence and aura.
3. Break the sense of comfort and enter an ambiguous relationship
When the second step of attraction is established, You will intuitively feel more and more connections between girls and you.
In other words, you will become good friends in the true sense.
But this process must not be too long, otherwise you will really become her best friend and it will be very difficult to get out of the friendship zone.
So in this process, you have to accurately judge the girl’s window, and when she is in a good mood, selectively escalate the ambiguous relationship between you.
Including daily communication, talk more about love and gender topics, tease each other appropriately, use vague and ambiguous language, and have moderate physical contact, so that girls can subtly get used to the intimate relationship between you. .
For example, a girl complains to you about working overtime and being scolded by her boss.
You can say to her in a joking way:
"Your boss is too much, what the hell@#￥@#! Why don't you just mess with me?" I just need a maid in the greenhouse.”
Or when we meet, he says her face is chubby and cute, and then pinches her cheeks and other physical upgrades.
These appropriate ambiguous actions must be carried out under the premise that the girl's emotional window is open, and a reasonable method must be used to make it easier for girls to accept.
Don’t misidentify the window and upgrade indiscriminately.
In other words, if a girl only treats you as an ordinary friend, but you tease her wantonly, this is acting like a hooligan.
When your ambiguous relationship is close enough, girls will have reverse rationalization in their hearts.
When she can be so close to you, she will realize that she likes you.
So at this point, all you need to do isDuring a date, you should accidentally hold the other person's hand, and a kiss in a romantic atmosphere will naturally establish your relationship.
