When chasing girls, many boys can’t tell the difference between normal pursuit and kneeling. They are afraid that chasing will turn into licking, so they never dare to take the initiative and miss the sweet love in vain. Then chasing girls How to avoid being a dog licker?
Let’s take a look at chasing girls, what kind of behavior is a real dog licker, and how to avoid being a dog licker.
1. Unilateral flattery
Actually, being a dog licker doesn’t mean you can’t chase girls or be nice to girls. , but it means that if you are sure that a girl doesn't like you, but you still keep giving, putting your hot face on her cold ass.
Don’t give up even if you are rejected, knowing that the other person doesn’t like you but still persevering.
This is like visiting someone else’s house. The host warmly entertains you and serves an apple that you least like to eat. You politely say that you don’t want to eat it. As a result, people thought you were embarrassed and kept handing it to you.
I believe everyone has had this experience. How did you feel at that time? What’s more, it’s an emotional matter.
So I should be able to understand the mood of girls. If you still hurry up at this time, I'm afraid it will embarrass both parties.
If someone doesn’t like you, your presence will make her very uncomfortable. No matter how much you do, I’m afraid you’ll only impress yourself.
Faced with someone who has no positive feedback for you, you will definitely feel very unhappy yourself. Why is this necessary?
So, for boys who are in this situation, wake up and face the reality. Being touched cannot buy love. If it is just self-impression in the end, it will be more than worth the loss.
2. Over-giving
There is a kind of boy who gives his whole heart every time he falls in love. In this materialistic world In this cross-current era, they are willing to spend money on girls without any complaints or calculations, which is actually quite rare.
Because in reality, more boys are not so stupid. They care about their own interests and cannot accept the loss of even one meal.
Of course I don’t want boys to be such a person, because to be honest, no girl will like a stingy boy.
But the most fearful thing about everything is going too far. Once you pay more than you can bear in order to cater to a girl's vanity, the relationship will deteriorate.
People often say to girls, if a boy has 10 yuan and is willing to spend 10 yuan for you, that is true love; if he has 100 yuan but is only willing to give you 10 yuan, that is true love. mean.
But everyone has forgotten that if a boy spends all his wealth on a girl, and is even willing to borrow money and loans in order to give the girl the best, this kind of relationship is actually extremely unfair. equal.
Even if you are very sure that the girl loves you, loving her does not prevent you from loving yourself. Especially don't do things beyond your capabilities just to please one person.
In short, I hope everyone can become a gentleman and a moderate person, love others with a certain amount, give a certain amount, and love yourself with a certain amount.
3. Losing yourself
Although people in love are more likely to lose themselves, they are still in the process of pursuit , you put yourself into the role of the other person's boyfriend, and risk everything for the other person, and you can easily be regarded as a "dog licker".
People often use the term "love brain" to describe those people who put love first. Once they fall in love, they put all their thoughts on their relationship and their lover.
Such people are more likely to lose themselves because of falling into a relationship, giving up their own lifestyle to accommodate the other person, and their emotions will fluctuate according to the other person's feedback.
Even a girl likes you, but the more you give, the more you expect from her.
When a girl’s feedback is difficult to satisfy you, you will have more negative emotions: “Did she not like me anymore?” or “Did I do something wrong?”
p>This kind of mental torture will slowly erode a person's enthusiasm and make you become more inferior, sensitive and negative.
Because such a relationship is unfair from the beginning, if a boy is currently in a situation where he likes someone unilaterally, he must always tell himself not to lose himself.
Of course, how can you like someone silently? You can’t waste time waiting, and you must also learn to judge a girl’s attitude.
If someone is also interested in you, then go for it boldly. If it is just one-sided love, then cut off the love as soon as possible. After all, the long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain.
