The relationship between a girl and her best friend is difficult to understand. When the two of them are good, they are inseparable, and their respective boyfriends may become jealous after seeing it. And once a quarrel breaks out, they will never get in touch with each other, and it will even affect the boyfriend. So how should your girlfriend comfort her when she quarrels with her best friend?
1. Diversion of attention
It is normal for a girlfriend to quarrel with her best friend. At first, I would try to persuade and enlighten her, but then I found that my girlfriend and her best friend basically had three days of fighting. There was a small quarrel, and then there was a big quarrel every five days, but within a few days the two of them seemed to be the same person, which shocked me, a mediocre person. Ever since I discovered the pattern of quarrels between girlfriends and best friends, no matter how my girlfriend quarrels with her best friend, I will neither say she is bad nor her best friend. So what should I do? Just take my girlfriend to the mall to buy shopping, buy her bags, clothes and lipstick, which is enough to make her feel better and forget about the quarrel with her best friend.
2. Analyze the reasons
When a girlfriend quarrels with her best friend, first comfort her, and then ask them why they quarreled. If it is a matter of principle, I will stand by my girlfriend; if it is a matter of principle; For some small things, enlighten your girlfriend not to affect the friendship between them just because of these small things. PS: Even if you think the fault lies with your girlfriend in the quarrel between your girlfriend and your best friend, you can't stand on the opposite side of your girlfriend to see the problem, otherwise your girlfriend may doubt whether you have a crush on her. Are you best friends??? And you don’t need to worry too much about the friendship between girls. They may make up inexplicably after a quarrel, so the best thing to do is not to interfere. Even if they break up, just make up. It doesn't matter much to you.
3. Relieve your girlfriend
Directly tell your girlfriend, "The two of you are noisy. It's normal, and quarrels are not necessarily useless. How can we prove that we are good friends without going through some trouble? It is only through quarrels that we can make the relationship closer. However, after the quarrel is over, don't you feel that you have done something wrong? Right." Your girlfriend will also start to reflect on what she did wrong, and maybe take the initiative to reconcile. Many times when a girlfriend loses her mind when she quarrels, all you need to do is help her regain her mind.
4. Don’t complain about your best friend
Some boys may think that their girlfriends have quarreled with their best friends, so they should just stand by their girlfriends’ side unconditionally and help them together. Complain and vent your anger together, doesn't this make you appear to be on the same team? However, you often don't expect that they will reconcile after a few days, and you, the person who said bad things about her best friend, seem petty. The worst thing is, if your words reach the ears of your girlfriend's best friend, and your best friend affects your relationship with your girlfriend in the future, the gain will outweigh the loss.
Although men and women will come into contact with each other’s friends and life when they fall in love, we still do not encourage boyfriends or girlfriends to interfere in each other’s social interactions. etc. Because you don't understand the other person's communication and friendship, your interference may have a counterproductive effect. When your girlfriend and your best friend quarrel, just try your best to provide rear support for your girlfriend.
