There are indeed many slow-moving girls in our lives. If you want to catch her, you have to develop slowly and don't rush. But some girls may not be slow to warm up, but they will seem to be slow to warm up when faced with boys who don't have a cold and cannot develop. Next, the editor will analyze for everyone what it means when girls say that they are slow to warm up? How to pursue it?
1. Look at a girl’s emotional experience
If this girl has never been in love or has never been chased by a boy quickly, then her statement about being slow to warm up may be true. If this girl has been chased quickly (especially more than once), then her saying that she is slow to get hot is an excuse. So if you want to judge whether a girl is really slow or fake, then first get to know all aspects of the girl, and also understand what kind of person you like. Maybe you won't like her after you get to know her.
2. Depend on your relationship with girls
Generally speaking, girls will say that they are slow to warm up. There are two types of people a woman says this to: one is a pursuer; the other is a new acquaintance.
If a girl tells her suitor that she is slow to get involved, it means two things:
1. I have no feelings for you, and I hope you will give up before you get into trouble;
2. The time we have known each other is too short, and we haven’t discovered your shining point yet. Please be patient and get to know each other better before deciding whether to be together.
If a girl tells someone she just met that she is slow, it has two meanings:
1. Girls are resistant to strangers and unwilling to communicate. In this case, the girl may be serious. Slowly warm up;
2. A girl is explaining to you why she is not enthusiastic about you, which is considered a polite reply.
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3. The meaning of true and false slow-heating of girls
1. If a girl is fake and slow-heating, then she Maybe she doesn’t like you and has no feelings for you, but she thinks you’re a pretty good person, so she’s a little confused. Maybe she’s waiting for someone else to show up to see which one is better, more likeable and more suitable for her. In other words, you’re being treated as Got the spare tire.
2. If a girl is really slow, she doesn’t take the initiative to find you because she is shy, she is afraid of disturbing you, and she is afraid that after finding you, you will be cold and impatient with her, making it appear that she is doing it herself. She is affectionate and seems to be being disrespectful. She is afraid of being disliked and bored by you, so she can only wait for you to find her. Sometimes she will be very disappointed if you don't find her, but as soon as you talk to her, she will be happy. sky.
No matter what girls mean when they say they are slow to warm up, if a boy really likes him, then he should work hard to pursue her, because no matter how slow a warm up, a girl can still develop feelings. Some girls Children just lack a sense of security and don’t want to give their sincerity so quickly (this may be related to various aspects of her life environment and experience). There are so many feelings, love at first sight and love over time. It depends on which one you like in the end. The most important thing. , what do you think? Different people will have different feelings, because what we want to achieve is different.