It is said that if you like a girl, you should attract her instead of chasing her, because sometimes if you chase her, you may lose her one day. But many boys don't know how to attract girls at all. Everyone knows the principle, but they are confused about how to do it. Below, the editor will share with you the 4 major steps to attract a girl and teach you how to attract her to fall in love with you.
1. Have a clean and tidy appearance
If you observe girls carefully, you will definitely find that girls spend a lot of time and energy dressing up carefully before going out, and the time is very long. It can take as little as half an hour, or as long as several hours. (So ??it’s understandable that girls are usually late for dates.) And if a girl dresses up carefully and arrives at the date, she finds that the boy she’s dating is... slovenly, unshaven, and wearing matching clothes that make his eyes look bad. No matter how good you talk afterwards , the dates you arranged were brilliant, but the girl’s heart was already cold from the beginning, let alone how could she be attracted to you?
As a man, although you can make a living without looking good, you should at least put some thought into sorting out your appearance before going out. , you may not be handsome, but you must not indulge yourself and not learn how to dress. Otherwise, a girl will think you are mean and low when she first sees you, and it will be even harder for you to attract her later. Therefore, it is recommended that boys get a handsome haircut before meeting a girl, give their beard a good rest, and match it with trendy clothes to make the girl look bright. This is step 1 to attracting girls.
2. Speaking and getting along skills
In fact, the skills of talking and getting along with girls vary from person to person. For example, some outgoing and open girls may like the kind of glib words or It's a hard-to-get approach, which you think suits you; but for those quiet and introverted girls, if a boy talks or gets along too greasyly, the girl will feel that you are uncomfortable getting along with you, and she will instead like to be as introverted and introverted as she is. Boys get along with each other, so if you want to attract girls in terms of speaking and getting along with each other, you must first understand what type of girl she is and determine what kind of chatting and getting along with her is suitable for you. This is step 2 of attracting girls.
3. Have friends with wide connections
If you are a person with weak social skills, then your Life can be lonely, and people with good social skills often have many friends. Girls like men with a wide network. When you have a wide network, many difficult-to-solve problems will be effectively solved, which can give girls a sense of security that they can rely on. If you have few friends, I suggest you go out more and make more valuable friends. Maybe your original intention is to meet girls, but I suggest you try to focus on making valuable friends or connections. above. This is step 3 of attracting girls.
4. Have good skills
The saying that a talented man matches a beautiful woman is not completely unfounded. A man has good skills. Easier to attract girls. This is step 4 in attracting girls. However, many boys always tend to ignore this point and don't pay much attention to cultivating some of their own skills. So it is difficult for girls to get surprise and romance from you. For example, if you know some little magic tricks, if you do it to her once in a while, she will definitely be delighted; if you are good at singing, you might as well perform a small concert for her on her birthday; if you can cook, then cook for the girl next time. You don’t have to overwhelm yourself with too many skills. When you have nothing to do, you might as well find some tutorials on the Internet and learn some skills, which will be useful one day.
The above is just a brief explanation of the four major steps to attract girls. Boys can only make more friends in the process of getting along with girls. Only by letting her see your good side will she be attracted to you, so you have to learn how to show it.
