In this era when there are more men than women, many boys have turned from pursuing girls to kneeling and licking, but the success rate of kneeling and licking this humble method is infinitely close to zero. So how on earth should you pursue a girl? Here are 3 methods to teach you. Girls all use these 3 methods.
1. Hypothetical screening
When conducting hypothetical screening, you must remember one thing, let the girl enter Our topic framework means that the girl obeys you and communicates according to your language logic. For example
Male: My night life is to play with my cat alone on the sofa after get off work
Female: I really want to have a cat, it feels too boring to be alone< /p>
Male: I don’t think you are boring at all
Female: Why
Male: Because your world now has an interesting soul
The meaning of this operation is to allow him to ask her to continue our questions. Of course, we cannot say such worthless words. We must filter and modify what we want to say as much as possible:
< p>Male: Looking at the photo, you look like a very kind girl.Female: Yes
Male: I think you will feel sad when you see those stray cats and dogs
Female: Yes, they are all so pitiful It is assumed that screening is to make them agree with what we say, and then facilitate our next operations, and through this communication, we can see whether the girl agrees with your point of view. In psychology, there is a threshold effect, which means that obedience is a step-by-step process. Only by raising the threshold step by step can girls fall into our trap.
2. Authenticity screening
In this step of authenticity screening, we have to think about what exactly we need? If you like cute girls, you can use the keyword cute to filter. If you like quiet girls, you can use quiet to filter. In the previous hypothetical screening, you have already formed a habit of talking to the girl. Even if we mentioned the advantages that the girl does not have during the screening process, she will still affirm it. It's like a girl you like asks you if you can cook. You don't know how to cook, but you still say you can cook.
Male: I think you are a quiet girl.
Female: Yes, usually they go to bars, KTVs and the like. I don’t want to go. This means that they passed the screening, but of course we will still encounter situations where they fail:
Male: I think you are a relatively quiet girl
Female: No, I have a wild heart
When encountering this situation, we have to use a tactic: "If your future boyfriend doesn't like you like this, will you change for him?" if she saysIf you are willing, then congratulations, you can take the next step; if not, then you have to take a step back and continue to attract girls through chatting and showing off.
3. Give interest
When a girl passes our screening, we will give her some interest. , let the girl know that I am interested in you and slowly started to like you. Now that I have reached this point, if you don't show your kindness, the girl will think that you are a scumbag who cheats on your feelings. But you have to have a certain degree of exposure to your good feelings, for example:
Male: Are you a quiet girl?
Female: Yes, usually they go to bars, KTV, etc. Yes, I don’t even want to go
Male: I think your favorability for me is already 9 points
To express your favorability here, you need to be a little subtle. Saying this is completely revealing. own sense of need. If we want to be subtle and let the girl know that we have a crush on her, what should we do? We might as well just say: “The perfect score is 100 points” In fact, by this time many brothers have already understood that this method of chatting is actually the push-pull chat of chat tokens we talked about before. It is very effective to use this method with a girl at this stage, because this kind of talking technique can mobilize the girl's emotions to the greatest extent and allow the girl to invest emotionally in you. It is the best way to get the girl to actively show her kindness to you.
Screening is a process that requires us to select the girl we like, match the same personality, and ultimately make the girl fall in love with us. This will allow you to avoid those girls who are not suitable for you, and it will also allow you to avoid kneeling and licking, and become a self-respecting, self-loving, and confident man
