For a girl who has just joined us, we can learn some information about her from her circle of friends as an opening and breakthrough point; for a girl who has been chatting for a long time, we can also explore new topics and opportunities for invitations from her circle of friends. But there are still many boys who don’t quite understand how to see these things in girls’ friend circles.
Therefore, today the editor will explain in detail what can be seen from a girl’s circle of friends.
First, let’s talk about the general content of the circle of friends
1. Some girls like to be among friends Share your mood in a circle. If you are happy, post it to share with everyone. If you are unhappy, post it to complain. In short, you can see various emotional texts in a girl's circle of friends every now and then, which shows that this girl is a very delicate emotional person.
2. Some girls have a lot of food photos in their WeChat Moments, ranging from big meals to snacks, especially those who like to eat food late at night. Needless to say, they are definitely foodies. This type of girl is very easy to invite. As long as you talk to her more about food-related topics and make more invitation expectations, then fulfill your expectations when the time comes and take her to eat the delicious food you promised before, you can basically meet her successfully. After all, it’s not just about your face, but also about the food’s face, isn’t it?
3. If there are often emotional content in a girl’s circle of friends, some of which are about love, and some of which make fun of her singleness. For example, she always jokes that life forces her to become a tomboy, and today she is full of dog food. Waiting for a full day, some are actually showing off other people's happiness. All these behaviors indicate that this girl has been single for a long time and is in a period of strong need to find a partner.
4. If she frequently posted some selfies and emotional chicken soup in WeChat Moments before, but after a certain day these contents almost never appear again, and she still maintains close contact with you, then you may has become her goal.
Second, let’s talk about selfies in the circle of friends
As we all know, girls like to take selfies very much No matter when or where they are, as long as they are in a good mood, they must take selfies. If this place is a little beautiful and cool, you can always see girls taking out their mobile phones and clicking at themselves. Then, these selfies will soon appear in their circle of friends. Girls like to post selfies. This is obviously a social behavior. Showing yourself off is either to get more attention from others or to be seen by someone you want to see. Of course, except for WeChat business, which is a species that transcends the Five Elements and is not in the Three Realms! In short, girls often update their selfie photos in the circle of friends, and it is inseparable from the purpose of gaining attention.
Of course, what different types of selfies will “tell” youIt’s also different!
1. Some girls usually don’t post selfies very often, but suddenly one day they post a selfie in their circle of friends with makeup on and polished. There is no doubt that she must have a target, and she suddenly posted the photo just to attract that target. Notice. If this type of girl must strike up a conversation, she must pay special attention to hiding her sense of need. A girl with goals will not look too good when being struck up by a boy with a purpose. First show her your aimless and non-threatening attitude, and slowly observe her state. There is always a chance.
2. They are also ordinary selfies, but most of the expressions are pretending to be deep and melancholy, pretending to smile, coupled with emotional chicken soup, feeling that one's relationship is not going well, and so on. Of course, you can't see that she has a boyfriend, which means that she is always alone, and she has almost no best friends. Simply put, she is bored and lonely, and she wants the attention of others, especially the opposite sex.
Relatively speaking, this type of girls is the easiest to strike up a conversation with. They don’t set standards for what kind of boys they want to pick up. As long as you are interesting and valuable, you can usually strike up a conversation with them, and then Just operate slowly.
3. I have appeared many times at home wearing shorts, cool clothes, and taking selfies in the mirror with my shoulders fully exposed. Some of them are invisible. Face, but you can see her "perfect" figure. So this kind of thing is mostly "telling" everyone: I'm so beautiful, will anyone date me?
Although this kind of girls post selfies to attract the attention of the opposite sex, but if they dare to show off, then they must There is information! So as high-quality girls, they are not lonely, so without exception, the requirements are very high! Brothers who want to flirt with this kind of girls should be mentally prepared, because the failure rate of chatting up with them is very high. Generally speaking, they are screening the boys who want to talk to them in a one-way manner. They only look at whether you have the value she needs, and are not affected by hard-core conditions such as your looks, humor, and wealth. Unlike ordinary girls, she will only be willing to get to know you after passing the screening and becoming someone she considers "worth knowing", and then develop an interest in you.
4. There is also a kind of girl who does not necessarily show her face, but the photos show her when she is shopping or playing. You can take a photo of the scene when you are walking, drinking coffee, or simply put a face and add text to say what you want to do. This kind of fishing is mostly fishing, and it's real-time fishing. The purpose is to ask someone to come out with her immediately. As long as you are willing to pay the bill, meeting her will be a matter of minutes.
5 Some girls are so confident in their beauty that they even fall in love with it. Their greatest pleasure every day isIt’s a selfie, take a picture of your beauty, take a picture of the part of yourself that makes you most satisfied, for example, you just got a manicure, take a picture of it, or you just bought a blingbling earring, and take a picture of it.
The characteristic of this kind of selfie is that it is messy and has no fixed style. It takes pictures while walking, eating, sitting, taking pictures by oneself or asking others to help. It seems that you can take pictures anytime and anywhere. The purpose of these girls is not to tease men. They want to attract attention from other girls and satisfy their vanity through the eyes of same-sex envy. Of course, you may also interpret this approach as pure narcissism. When you see this, just give it a like!
3. About three days of visibility
After adding a girl, I excitedly opened her circle of friends, but it was empty. Yiwu? Why can’t the girl’s circle of friends with whom I’m chatting very well suddenly not be visible? If I look carefully, there is a line of small words... “Friends only display the circle of friends of the last three days.” As for why a girl sets her profile to be visible for three days, some people think it’s because she has some secrets in her circle of friends that she doesn’t want to show to strangers. Some people also think that the fact that I could see all the content in her circle of friends a few days ago, but now it is suddenly visible for three days, shows that I am actually a dispensable person to her. Don't think too much about this. In fact, girls' friend circles are visible for three days. In most cases, they are not specially set up for you at all.
Girls usually do this for the following reasons:
1. The circle of friends is important to her It is a place to record the trajectory of life, but she does not want to share it, but she does not want to completely close it into an online diary, so she makes it visible for three days and has limited access.
2. There are many selfies and short videos used for fishing, and her fishing is usually done on a temporary basis, such as posting a selfie to ask a brother to go out to watch a movie together, or fishing out a handsome guy when she is bored. Please make a skewer yourself. If people who know her well read these things every day, the girl feels that it is quite embarrassing, but there is no need to delete them directly, so they simply set it to be visible for three days. After three days, no one can see it anyway, which is very convenient. . Basically everyone is within her blocking range, and even the closer the relationship is to the person, the less she wants to see some of her little actions.
3. There are too many friends added, and the relationship levels are high and low. The content of the circle of friends is not suitable for everyone to see at the same time, so it is also set to be visible for three days to save trouble.
4. The circle of friends is full of advertisements. She doesn’t want social contacts who are not the target customer group to be disgusted by seeing full-screen advertisements, so she makes them visible for three days, or simply blocks them to make everyone’s eyes clearer.
5. There is really nothing. When the girl thought about it, she might as well make it visible for three days and pretend to be mysterious.
Therefore, if a girl sets it up to be visible for three days, in most cases it is not her feelings for you that have happened at all.What's the change? I have secrets that I don't want to show you. I'm just trying to save trouble. I really don’t want to show it to you. You can’t even see the small words visible for three days. It’s clean and blocked directly. In short, the "three days visible" friend circle is not specifically targeted at you, so don't feel frustrated when you see a girl's friend circle visible for three days and think you are rejected by her.
