There are festivals of this kind every year. Whenever these festivals come, boys start to have a headache choosing gifts.

In fact, apart from some of these festivals that have been recognized by everyone since ancient times, many of them were thought up by girls themselves. So why do girls like to celebrate festivals so much? Is it just because they want to Do you want to receive a gift?

Actually that’s not the case. A girl likes to celebrate holidays and wants gifts just to prove that you love her, and she wants to prove that you love her because she is insecure. So to put it simply, if girls like to celebrate holidays and ask for gifts, it is a sign of lack of security.

So how do we give a girl a sense of security? First of all, make it clear that security comes from the feeling of being cared about, so you want your girl to find a sense of security in you, both in your thoughts and actions. Make her feel cared for.

1. Remember important anniversaries

The importance of a festival does not actually lie in itself. In terms of the value of the festival, if your girlfriend thinks this festival is important, then it is important. Don’t make excuses saying that you can’t remember it. If you can’t remember it, you have to memorize it by rote! Because this will really be criticized by your girlfriend. If you are taking the exam, if you really can’t do it, just use the memo on your phone to make arrangements.

2. Empathize, don’t be anxious to be reasonable

When a girl tells you: I am very sad. Friends, at this time she doesn’t want you to ask her why she is sad, nor does she want you to rack your brains to analyze the pros and cons for her. What matters is how you ease her distress.

The most common mistake we make is to reason with girls. It’s not that you shouldn’t be reasonable, it’s that you shouldn’t be reasonable regardless of the time or occasion. It's like if you lose in a game, your teammates start to analyze the tactical issues for you. Even if you lose, it's useless to talk about it.

In fact, at this time, a hug, a small gift, and an understanding are enough to ease her mood. When her mood calms down, it will not be too late for us to reason with her.

3. Don’t ignore verbal expression

Sometimes, you can’t just use your hands and not speak. Generally speaking, boys are pragmatists and believe in "talk less and do more". This alone is correct, but the idea of ??putting it into the relationship between two people is quite disadvantageous.

Think about it, we work hard and pay a lot for our girlfriend. Just because we don’t know how to express it, not only does it not make her feel comfortable, but it also feels like we are forced to pay. Then she definitely doesn’t want to!

In fact, expressing yourself appropriately also emphasizes her importance in the relationship. Saying a few more sweet words of love will really not kill you. This is what they want, and the cost is not high.of. If you hear love words too many times, you will naturally take them seriously. (This explains why scumbag men’s mouths are like honey)

So, friends, during festivals, girls with boyfriends must be showing off, while single girls see other people showing off If you are in love, you will be extremely eager to have your sense of ritual fulfilled.

So, this is a great opportunity to pursue success, don’t miss it! Hurry up and choose a holiday to attack the girl you love.