Maybe boys have a very simple mind. When they think they like or care about someone, they have to show it, because they are afraid that girls will not know that they like her. But a girl’s thoughts are much more tactful and reserved. Sometimes even if you can see that she cares about you, she will still keep a distance from you in her behavior. This makes many boys confused. Why does a girl obviously care about you but not What about keeping your distance?
1. Your previous attitude made the girl feel perfunctory
If you and the girl have already started an ambiguous period, but you don’t know when you find her chatting with you, etc. If you are no longer as close as before, it may be that your previous attitude made the girl feel perfunctory. When she is disappointed with you, she will keep a distance from you and return to the attitude she had when we first met.
Why are girls disappointed with you? Recall:
In fact, a long time ago, the first thing she did when she got up every morning was to say hello to you, chat with you about her situation, share information, and also pay attention to your updates and your friends. Circle and pay attention to everything related to you.
On holidays, she never sends group messages but only sends blessings to you alone. A long list of words is edited and then deleted, and she considers the words again and again. Finally, I sent an XX, happy holidays.
You saw the message and knew it was not a group message. You hesitated for a second whether to reply or not. Forget it, let’s play the game first. Your teammates are important. Later, after a long time, when you were getting ready to go to bed at night, you were flipping through the message list and remembered that you didn't reply to her message, so you simply sent her one, just to have fun together.
In fact, you guys talked about everything a long time ago. Every night she would share with you what happened during the day. When did it change? It was probably at that time that she suddenly realized that every time you answered, it was uh-huh, yes, yes, oh, so perfunctory.
She didn’t want to bother her at first, but she began to slowly change and learn to put her thoughts in her heart, and learned to get used to someone turning a blind eye. And recently, maybe she finally let go of her obsession.
At this time, you come to ask why girls clearly care about you but keep their distance? Think about how you turned her passion into distance.
2. Girls think it is impossible for you to be with each other
We say that many girls are love-brained, but what we are actually saying is that girls will lose their minds during the process of falling in love, but in fact, before girls enter love She is still very rational. She will consider from all aspects whether you can go on for a long time, and she will only agree if she thinks it is possible. But if a girl thinks it’s impossible between you from the beginning, then even if she likes you, she will keep her distance from you, for example:
@bgsqes: At that time, I thought boys were very good and interesting, singingIt sounds great and looks great too. It was love at first sight for the boy. At the beginning of the school year, the boy was asked by the teacher to sing and he sang very nicely. From that time on, I had a crush on boys. It was my first time to fall in love with someone, but I didn’t understand anything. I wanted to get close to him but didn’t dare. My parents always taught me not to fall in love early, and I had low self-esteem at that time. I felt that I was not very good-looking and had no shining points. I would be very nervous when I was close to him, so I would not take the initiative to talk to him or pass by him. , to be honest, I didn’t dare, so I could only look at him from a distance.
If a girl obviously cares about you but keeps her distance, it must be because she is worried. Otherwise, why do you think a girl likes you but has to restrain herself?
