If you ask a girl what type of boy she hates the most, 80% of the answers will be those with low emotional intelligence. Boys with high EQ always have an easy time chasing girls, but boys with low EQ always run into obstacles when chasing girls. Do you know what taboos boys have when chasing girls, and what behaviors reduce points?
Point-reducing behavior 1: Always doing inappropriate things.
Chatting with the girl next to you when watching a movie, and playing games while drinking coffee. This is something people with low emotional intelligence often like to do. When it’s time to chat while drinking coffee, I don’t chat, I just keep my head down and play games. When we shouldn't be chatting while watching a movie, we suddenly started talking non-stop. How can such behavior not be annoying? In addition, whether you are a boy or a girl, whatever you do, you must consider whether it is consistent with the environment and place at that time. For example, if you go to a food stall to eat barbecue, you can just wear a tank top and shorts. But you can’t wear tank tops and shorts when eating Western-style steak. Similarly, when you are having a barbecue, you wear a suit, a tie, and a small hat on your head. It just seemed too strange.
Point-reducing behavior 2: Making excessive jokes
Many boys learn a sense of humor and start joking with girls in their early days of contacting school, but different girls have different bottom lines. . Every girl's dislikes are different. Some girls don't like boys talking to her about dirty topics. Some girls don't like boys touching her when they talk. Some girls don't like boys using dirty words when they talk.
Therefore, boys should have a degree of restraint and don’t let girls think that you are a very vulgar, carefree, and playboy when they first come into contact with you, because girls’ impressions of such boys are unreliable. Yes, it will be difficult for boys to leave a good impression on girls.
Point-reducing behavior three: The clothes you wear are always so low.
A man doesn’t have to be handsome, but he must be neat and tidy. This is a saying that women often say, but do you think that cleanness means clean clothes? Then you are totally wrong. This cleanliness actually contains many meanings. Wrong matching of clothes = loser. Clothes of poor quality = diaosi. If the clothes don't suit me, I'm still a loser.
It is really difficult for a boy to wear clothes that suit him. So I would like to give you a suggestion, that is, there are several taboos when wearing clothes.
First: Try to wear jeans as little as possible. Unless you are particularly handsome, jeans will not look high-end no matter how you wear them.
Second: Don’t wear more than 3 colors on your body. You are not a woman. What do you want to do with such fancy clothes?
Third: If you want to wear a suit, you must wear trousers. . Don't wear a suit on the upper body, jeans on the lower body, and finally pair it with sneakers, you will die!
Fourth: Wear black pants with black shoes.Yellow pants, go with yellow shoes. Don't ask me why I match them this way, it's the right match.
If you don’t know how to chat, try to talk as little as possible and speak Guan Jianhua to make women think you are mysterious and unpredictable. This is also good. Never be unable to speak, force yourself to speak, or make awkward conversations. This is so embarrassing. Likewise, dress yourself in a fashionable manner so that you will be invincible when chasing girls.