Most of the girls nowadays are more money-worshipping. Even if the man is face-blind, he will take the initiative to send it to his door without caring about the age gap between the two parties.
Under this premise, many Brothers will all fall into a misunderstanding when chasing girls, thinking that they can chase girls if they have money. In fact, don’t think this way when chasing girls. Besides, if you think like this, do you dare to want a girl? So, there are still ways to chase girls. of.
Let me share with you some mistakes you must not make when chasing girls!
Mistake No. 1 when chasing girls: being too good to women
Have you noticed that those are a little bit Charming women never seem to be attracted to "good guys" who are too nice to her? I'm sure you know beautiful women who like "bad guys"...but for some reason they don't have that interest in you? Why is this? The reason is actually very simple... When a woman initially judges whether she is attracted to a man, she does not look at how "nice" the man is to her. Women like the men they like because: they feel an instinctive attraction to these men. Being too nice to a woman doesn't make her feel that powerful, instinctive attraction. And being nice to women doesn't make them choose you. When they find a man who can give her this instinctive attraction, they will immediately choose him to give up on you (leave you). I know this doesn't seem logical and hard to accept...but you have to accept it. And until you accept this fact and start changing yourself, you'll never get the woman you really want.
Mistake 2 when chasing girls: always catering to women’s opinions
Most men meet someone they like When looking for a woman, he always blindly agrees with and caters to her opinions. They think they can win a woman's heart this way. They believe that simply agreeing with her will make a woman feel comfortable and happy. If you always go along with her, what reason does she have to be unhappy? Yes, maybe she will be friendly to you, maybe she will be happy when you agree with her point of view, but as far as she is concerned, your relationship ends here So far, it is difficult to surpass ordinary friends. In fact, for women, they prefer men who have their own ideas and opinions, rather than men who only agree with their opinions and requests all day long. Didn't you expect that? Women don't like their men always saying "ok" and "right" and other flattering words. Because in the eyes of a woman, a man who always agrees with her is opinionated, weak, and incompetent. Women are not attracted to such men. Even when her heart was weak and she wanted to try it with a man who was so unassertive, she would soon leave him. This is a woman's instinct. Nothing in this world can be forced.
Mistake Three: Asking for Approval or Permission
We mistakenly believe that pleasing women will make them like us. Men always try their best to please womenMan, go get a woman’s “approval” or “permission” – another terrible idea. Women are never attracted to men who please them...ever. Pleasing a woman and getting approval will never make a woman like you. Women actually hate men who seek their approval. Don’t believe me? Ask any woman around you if they hate men who hang around you all day long seeking their approval…
However, you also don't have to be "bad" to please them.
Mistake 4 when chasing a girl: Always try to "buy" her liking for you by treating her to dinner and giving her gifts
Count how many times you treat a woman to dinner ?Buy gifts for her? Send her flowers? But she still rejects you and falls in love with another man who is not half as good to her as you... You have had enough of this, haven't you? Such a result is very normal! When you do these things, you actually give a very obvious and clear message: "I don't think you will like me because of who I am, so I will do my best to buy your attention and respect for me." " Your good intentions usually appear in the eyes of women that you lack confidence in yourself, that you rely on "bribing" women to make her like you, and that you try to control women through monetary gifts. And "lack of self-confidence" is the fastest thing that can make a woman lose feelings for you. Attempts such as money and gifts are seen as "control" in the eyes of women. Some women even look down on such men in their hearts.
Five mistakes in chasing girls: Confessing too early - telling her your feelings/feelings for her too early in the relationship
Most men confide their "feelings" to women prematurely and express their feelings to women prematurely. You know, attractive women are rare. They usually get a lot of attention from men. Most men don't realize this. Beautiful women are always liked by many men, who use various methods to attract her attention. An attractive woman may attract men's attention several times a day, with glances drifting, greetings, and even stranger men approaching her to strike up a conversation, etc. Several times a day, dozens of times a week, and often hundreds of times a month. Attractive women have usually been chased by many men, or even dated many men, and they have a lot of emotional experience. When a man confesses to her after meeting her once or twice: "I really, really like you." This is equivalent to telling her that you are no different from other men who have not pursued her and cannot control themselves. I can't help but fall in love with her. Using the same methods as others will never make you stand out, but will speed up your failure.