Many things are inseparable from money, and the same is true for relationships. It is natural for boys to occasionally spend money on the girl they like. This is actually a way of showing kindness to her, but money does not come with strong winds. It’s not worth it to spend money on a woman who doesn’t love you but loves your money. What will happen to a woman who doesn’t love you and is just cheating you of your money?

1. Never pay for you

In a relationship, spending money is a normal thing.

If she can’t treat you to a movie after you treat her to dinner, or she won’t treat you back next time, and this happens again and again, then you need to be careful, she is probably trying to get something for nothing. Wolf.

On any holiday, you spend money and give gifts, and she doesn’t give any material feedback other than thanks, which shows that she doesn’t like you.

For example, if you have a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan and give her a package of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan, this gift is beyond your ability.

2. Accept gifts beyond your financial ability as a matter of course

If she accepts it as a matter of course and does not consider where you got the money, then she must not like you. , If you like someone, you will definitely consider the other person. You cannot accept this gift for granted and feel at ease knowing that this gift will seriously affect your quality of life and ability to bear it.

3. Frequently take your best friends on dates with you

Face is very important in front of friends. If you have her friends While there, you must spend money to support her face.

Take her to a high-end restaurant for dinner, and be sure to show off to your friends, or bring her friends directly to join you in a banquet, dinner party, KTV, etc. It is said that it is fun to have more people.

Actually, I just want to save some face in front of my friends, and I feel that this boyfriend can still take advantage of me.

4. Asking you to borrow money

This is a sign, which usually appears after the previous three symptoms.

This is also a turning point in female psychology.

The material things in the past could no longer satisfy her psychology, and her desire was amplified at this moment. If she had passively accepted it before, now she was actively asking for it. It’s understandable if you need money for an urgent matter, but if it’s because of consumption desires or other reasons, you should handle it with caution.

Don’t think that asking for money is a sign of need from you.

Generally speaking, girls will not be embarrassed to ask for money even when facing their boyfriends. As the saying goes, the more familiar they are, the harder it is to open their mouths. That's it.

5.I'm very stingy with you

I act very generous in front of others, and I don't care about small money.

I act very generous and righteous on the outside, but I still care about dozens and hundreds of people in front of you. In turn, I will say that you are unmanly, too stingy, and care about everything, mother-in-law and mother-in-law. If you give someone a gift or treat someone to a meal without even frowning, you may be asked to reimburse them.

The same gift may not be worth giving to others, but it may feel unworthy and unnecessary to give it to you.

6. Like to compare

So-and-so’s boyfriend gave her another bag today, which was handmade and limited edition.

No matter what it is, as long as a new product is released, as long as someone around you buys it, you will get the information as soon as possible.

No matter what words she starts with, the end result is to make you pay.

Of course it will give you a lot of face if a girl dresses up better, but don’t keep the face that you can’t afford to “reach high”.

If she is satisfied with all three of the above six points, please turn around and leave happily, and do not sink deeper and deeper.