There are always a lot of subtexts in girls’ words. Even the “inappropriate” sentence that seems to be a rejection actually contains a lot of subtexts. If a boy can understand it and respond appropriately, there is still a chance to make her change her mind. What are the subtexts of what the girl said is inappropriate, and how should you reply to her?

1. The girl said Inappropriate subtext

1. I think you are very good, but we are not suitable

Subtext: A typical good person card is issued and you are forcibly labeled as a "good person". You He is a very nice person, but I don’t like him

2. We are too young and it is not suitable for us to be together

The subtext is: Why are we still too young? You are not qualified to do it yet My boyfriend

3. Aren’t we friends? It’s not appropriate for us to be together

Subtext: We are just friends. We can only have friendship, don’t think about anything else< /p>

　4. In fact, I don’t have the courage to accept a relationship, we are not suitable

　Subtext: You are not my type, you will stay wherever you are.

　5. We are here Together? Not very suitable, right?

Subtext: Joke, how can we be together, how can you be worthy of me?

6. Can we wait, I think we are now Inappropriate

Subtext: You are still not interested in being my boyfriend. It depends on your performance in the future

7. You deserve better, we are not suitable

Subtext: Don’t you have an idea of ??what you look like? Let’s wait until you become better

8. Me I can’t forget my ex-boyfriend, we’re not suitable for each other

Subtext: It’s not that I can’t forget my ex-boyfriend, it’s that you can’t compare to your ex-boyfriend. How can you make me like you?

9. I never forget my ex-boyfriend. If we haven’t had this problem, maybe we are not suitable for each other

Subtext: You are insignificant in my heart, we are impossible, and I have no intention of thinking about this problem

10. I'm not ready yet. We're not suitable. Subtext: I don't need to prepare. We're just not suitable. You don't have to waste your efforts.

11. It's hard to like me. The last person, I'm sorry, we are not suitable.

Subtext: You didn't make me feel that you were special, I was not attracted to you, you should choose someone else.

　12. I have someone I like, but we are not suitable.

Subtext: It doesn’t matter if I have someone I like, it’s not you anyway.

2. How to reply when a girl says she is not suitable?

When a girl tells you "We are not suitable", do not rush to ask the other party, "What is wrong with us?" She will find countless reasons for you. At this time, you must first find a suitable answer to the other party, and then slowly analyze what problems exist between you, such as:

　1: " I won’t say anything else, please look at my actions.”

This kind of answer is very sincere and can make her feel it. If she proves that you will be good to her and that you are worthy of her likes, her affection for you will increase a lot and she will seriously consider the relationship between the two of you.

　2: "I will not give up. I will not change for you. I will change for myself. This is something worthy of admiration."

We found her If you feel inappropriate and make changes to gain her trust, it will be very romantic in the eyes of the other party, and many of her believe that love will last for a long time. If he can see your changes and dedication, he will believe that Over time, I will definitely be able to change my opinion of you.

3: "I am such a warm-hearted person, what do you think is inappropriate?"

Although this answer is very simple, she usually can't find the reason why it is inappropriate. , if the other party is not disgusted with you, he will reconsider the relationship between the two of you, and tell you where you are inappropriate, and work together to change the original inappropriateness. Caring and bravery are what impress her the most.