Divorced women are more likely to be insecure than ordinary women because they have been hurt by marriage. When you pursue such a woman, you may have a cold feeling that no matter how hard you pursue, the other party will not be moved. If you fall in love with a divorced woman, how can you catch her?
1. Sincerity
Many people will say that to chase a girl, all you need is money. This idea is definitely wrong. You must know that sincerity is the best medicine for love. Divorced women have seen too many aspects of marriage. Money can solve many problems, but it cannot give you the warmth of a family.
If a divorced woman is just for money, she can stay in the marriage. If she can leave the original marriage, she hopes to gain respect, understanding and love.
Because they have seen all the prosperity of the world, they are no longer little girls who have just graduated, and they are not fish that will be easily fooled. When it comes to courting her, there's no use sweet-talking her.
Of course, many of the tricks used to chase girls should not be used on divorced women, because these tricks and techniques will even reduce your points when it comes to her.
Using these techniques, it is better to sincerely tell her what you have and that you want to live a good life with her. Even if you have many concerns, you can tell her at the same time.
In the process of getting along with her, she can receive every word, every look, and every action you say. Only sincerity can melt her aloofness and touch her heart.
2. Be patient
A divorced woman usually waits for a long time after the divorce. Guilty, you will feel that all men in the world are big liars, and then you will fall into a deep pain that you cannot extricate yourself from. The length of this period of depression is directly proportional to the degree of heartbreak in a woman. If you fall in love with a divorced woman, you will find that she is very aloof and it is difficult to get close to her. Her heart is closed, as if she does not leave a chance to anyone. At this time, if you want to catch up with her, you must have enough patience, start from being the most ordinary friend, and don't show excessive concern or be too attentive every day, otherwise it will be easy to disgust her.
3. Don’t ask her about her past when chatting
In this society, even if she is as close as parents and children. There are many things that cannot be said directly to each other. Needless to say, between lovers. Although frankness between men and women can improve each other's goodwill and intimacy. But men, if you like a divorced woman, you must suppress your curiosity when approaching her. Just touch on her past and her last failed marriage. She is full of doubts about the terms marriage and husband and wife, so don't go into too much detail. Divorced women have a very low sense of security, andShe is more sensitive and delicate than ordinary women. Once you fail to grasp the degree, she will be like a frightened bird and immediately put away her little curiosity about you. In this way, it will be even more difficult for you to chase her.
4. Be good to her children and family
A large number of divorced women I have children with my ex-husband. Even if she breaks all ties with her ex-husband, they will never see each other again in this life. But she and her own children are inseparable in this life. Women who have children naturally put their children first. They must first consider their children in future life and remarriage. So if the woman you love has a baby, you might as well start by being nice to the baby. If the baby likes you, the mother will definitely have a better impression of you.
For a divorced woman without children, if you want to pursue her, try your best to be nice to her family. No matter in any period, being filial and being kind to family members are always plus points for a man.
It is indeed difficult for a divorced woman to open her heart to others, but in the final analysis she is just an ordinary woman, just a little cold and sensitive. Remember these four tips, and you will definitely get married!
